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Dear Forever you are coming across. If the Spirit has shown you not to submit to this then you have to do that and you are right in what you do. Being subject to husbands does not come before being subject to God. That God has shown to you that it is rebellion in DH that is finding it's expression in this, then of course you need to listen to that and obey God first as He has shown you.

My comments were about the principles of deciding whether any bedroom activity is right or wrong for everyone on the basis of personal criteria and feelings as one does get a huge range of opinions on these kind of subjects. However an argument is at the mercy of experience and you need to be faithful to what God has shown you.

With regard to HS's we have to now be careful in this country what we say because of certain laws. I can agree with you on what you say. Sodomy is one of the expressions of HS behaviour. The scripture doesn't particularly pick it out rather the whole behaviour of which sodomy can be a part as you have explained.

Going back to the other within marriage it still remains that one cannot necessarily win an argument on the basis of what one's gut feeling is or what the Spirit has shown us personally.

If you are happy with OS God bless you. This is what I wanted to please my wife with but she is not taking. Her call. The arguments I have heard are really against the man receiving on the basis of similar type arguments that you have made. Then again there is no clear scriptural argument to back that up, so really one cannot judge.

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Just thought I'd post the comment from Ingrid on the "Helpful Tips" section "Why do men need porn".

I didn't realise that when one gets into porn it actually begins to destroy the persons ability to enjoy really good sex and that if one continues to indulge in porn, it destroys their ability to engage in good sex with the person they really do love. The repetitive indulgence in pornography actually retrains a persons body to react in a different and unnatural way. It means (s)he can no longer be sexually aroused by her/his partner - (s)he can now only be aroused by sexual images and masturbating.

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wow thats scary Raymond, and only serves to reiterate the evil of porn.

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Haven't we always known that anyway Chosen? It's important that a man knows it I think.