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Forum: Marriage Help 23rd October 2013, 04:19 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

Wow! Amazing! Morpheus, reading your story made me think back on my own life, looking at everything I have experienced and how these things brought me to where I am today. How could a person not be...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th October 2013, 05:26 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

I have attended one therapy session, and was very pleased. I am looking forward to my next session.

Since finding that copy of the check my husband wrote to this other woman, and dealing with the...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd October 2013, 11:54 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

Yes. However, even better for me at this point, I have an appointment to start seeing a therapist who specializes in marriage counseling, next week. I am a very spiritual person, and have prayed for...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st October 2013, 02:39 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

He really made me feel awful for pursuing this. I never meant to cause him so much misery and make him hate me. I guess it was a desperate attempt to salvage something... I don't know. I just wanted...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st October 2013, 10:32 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

When I got home from work he lit into me again for wrongly accusing him. Extremely angry, yelling at me that I was driving myself crazy and him to hate me. He also criticized me for snooping through...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th September 2013, 09:23 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

Well, he's been appearing to be a bit nicer to me, again as long as I don't bring up the subject of this other woman. Even spending a little bit, not a lot, but a noticable bit more time... but I...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd September 2013, 04:35 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

True. I know there's something more enjoyable beyond this. Even if it is a life living just with myself. I shouldn't expect anything from him, and as mentioned earlier, just start to live my life...
Forum: Marriage Help 21st September 2013, 12:13 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

Yes, you are right. I never saw things going this way. I always worked hard to make him happy, keep up my home, always there for the kids, and holding down a full time job. I always thought things...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th September 2013, 06:05 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Post Re: I can't let go!

We have both worked for many years. When he wasn't working he fished and hunted. I took care of the home and helped the kids through getting out and starting their lives. I have always been the very...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th September 2013, 11:33 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

I know I need physical proof of any cheating, and its so hard. One thing for sure is nothing seems right and I know that from my core. I feel like I am in the depths of confusion, doubt, suspicion,...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th September 2013, 10:43 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

Some trips are overnight and appear to be legit. Others I have wondered, like the last week long trip several states away when I didn't hear from him for a full week. That really bothered me. I...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th September 2013, 08:38 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

I think I will try the letter. Especially since it is so very difficult to talk with him. Thanks!
Forum: Marriage Help 19th September 2013, 04:24 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

It's very frustrating for me. I'm getting very fed up with his nasty ways and mean remarks. I don't like saying this because it reflects my state of beginning to check out also. I have never opposed...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th September 2013, 03:07 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

Raymond - He never wears his wedding band. He didn't wear it when he worked because he worked in construction, and he said it was dangerous for him to wear a ring. Since his retirement three years...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th September 2013, 04:05 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

Well, a month has passed, and over that time I have tried to talk about this other woman friend with my husband, pointing out how inappropriate their communicatios have appeared on that public...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th September 2013, 06:33 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

Honestly, after 29 years... I am so ready to experience a relationship with some one who really wants to be with me, and appreciates me. I think I am a very good person, at least I try to be. I am...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th September 2013, 05:41 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

Well, the overnite fishing trips would be difficult because I work full time. Remember, he's retired. Any of these trips would call for me to take time off from work. What I need to do at this point...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th September 2013, 04:10 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

Thanks! So much great advice here!
Interestingly enough, last night I tried to (very calmly) talk to him about my feelings and show him some of the communications between them that would lead anyone...
Forum: Marriage Help 4th September 2013, 03:26 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

You are right, he is trying to live the best of both worlds! I have suggested counseling in the past, and he always says he doesn’t need it, that I do.

My husband is a very good sports fisherman....
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd September 2013, 10:58 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
Re: I can't let go!

Thank you Ronoco. I do feel taken for granted, and taken advantage of much of the time. You are right about doing things for myself. I take care of my body, watch what I eat, and stay active. I am...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd September 2013, 07:02 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Pamela
I can't let go!

This summer, 2013, was a very tough summer for me. I have been struggling with my marriage for a very long time, but more recently in the past couple of years, not sure why my husband didn’t seem to...
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