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Forum: Marriage Help 25th November 2013, 06:08 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

No offense, men. But most of you react to PAIN AND CONSEQUENCES.......



Often too late judging by my experience on here, but we have seen some good turnarounds especially when the wife had the...
Forum: Marriage Help 25th November 2013, 10:12 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

Are you saying there were good times in the marriage BellX?

I would question whether she has rejected you. It appears to me that you have rejected her rightly or wrongly.

Chosen I thought it...
Forum: Marriage Help 24th November 2013, 09:00 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

Well unfaithfulness is the one thing that can rock and end the marriage. You had to do what you had to do Chosen. I am not suggesting otherwise.

Yes what some children think about about sex is...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd November 2013, 05:59 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

You were unfortunate to have someone who was unfaithful Chosen. That is the biggest deal breaker. Roses is right about Hollywood and the media. They are feeding these ideals to people but it is not...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd October 2013, 08:50 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

That sounds good Pamela. You are speaking in a different way now. Not like a doormat. It is a good post from Morpheus and I need to get time like Ronoco to look at it properly. There are patterns...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd October 2013, 12:43 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

Let us know how you get on Pamela. I think you are right about where your attention should be right now. Things like this force us to look to God and we become the stronger for it.

The verse that...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd October 2013, 08:42 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

Pamela do you have a church of fellowship that you are a part of?
Forum: Marriage Help 1st October 2013, 07:01 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

I sense control going on there in the way he accuses you Pamela. That is where a man will use fear or intimidation to keep you quite. It is very subtle. His reaction is not loving.

What are the...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st October 2013, 01:17 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

Yes of course he should be confiding in you not her. It's like a them and me situation but you are his wife. It sounds like an emotional attachment to the detriment of the marriage to me. He doesn't...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st October 2013, 08:52 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

If he values his marriage he should stop seeing her and put you first. A husband should not be spending such a lot of time with another woman alone. His first priority should be to give you peace of...
Forum: Marriage Help 21st September 2013, 09:38 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

It does look as if he has thoroughly taken advantage of your goodwill and played on it Pamela. You cannot do that any longer as it only enables his selfishness. My wife does a lot for me but I...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th September 2013, 08:51 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

I think you have had it out with him to a certain extent Pamela and was virtually told to shut up about it. Whether he is cheating or not the marriage style needs a lot to be desired.

Can you say...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th September 2013, 09:36 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

It figures about the ring Pamela. I kind of expected it.

A definite case of drifting and maybe even flirting or worse perhaps.

You are wise not to take any sudden action. Really think things...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th September 2013, 12:55 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

Yes the money part does look very unfair and without love. My wife has never had to contribute financially to anything. I am responsible for that. If she does have a job she will contribute and that...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th September 2013, 08:59 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

You should be number one in his life Pamela and somehow he has drifted. This relationship with this woman certainly doesn't help things. He is a married man after all. It is out of order in my...
Forum: Marriage Help 4th September 2013, 08:35 PM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

I would trust your instincts Pamela. My instinct tell me that you are right and you must protect yourself and not let up. He wants you to drop it but you can't. Her response on the blog speaks...
Forum: Marriage Help 4th September 2013, 08:45 AM
Replies: 79
Views: 105,855
Posted By Raymond
Re: I can't let go!

His prime relationship in life should be with you as his wife Pamela. You have been very generous and have supported his lifestyle but I wonder now if you are just enabling his estrangement. He has...
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