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Forum: Christian Marriage 13th October 2016, 10:24 AM
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Re: Husband doesn't want sex

I see your point.
Forum: Christian Marriage 12th October 2016, 09:50 AM
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Re: Husband doesn't want sex

The frequency can drop with age gradually but the quality can actually increase in my experience. I think it is because you know each other so well and know what switches the other on.

What we...
Forum: Christian Marriage 11th October 2016, 10:35 AM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

This is a difficult one. One wonders why he got married if he doesn't want sex. I would count sex as the cement that holds the marriage together. Not that we have sex every minute but take that away...
Forum: Christian Marriage 28th May 2016, 10:31 PM
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Re: Husband doesn't want sex

I am just shocked Dee Dee that your husband used to be a Salvation Army pastor and is coming out with this stuff. There is something dreadfully wrong here. I have answered your post on the marriage...
Forum: Christian Marriage 29th May 2014, 08:43 AM
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Re: Husband doesn't want sex

Something is going on it seems. Porn would fit the bill but we can't be sure about that. One sign would be that he stays up on the internet after you have gone to bed. That doesn't prove it but they...
Forum: Christian Marriage 27th May 2014, 06:35 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

mm it could be anyone of a number of things Rivergirl. Porn would fit the bill if it was that. It would be worth checking on. If he is a christian he will know that is wrong.

Sometimes it is just...
Forum: Christian Marriage 10th November 2012, 10:32 PM
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Re: Husband doesn't want sex

Yes people do get completely delivered from porn. I heard of one who became a prophet later on. He was quite open about being delivered from porn. We are going to see many like that I think.
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Forum: Christian Marriage 10th November 2012, 10:51 AM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

I disagree that Christian counseling can only show that something is wrong and not the way out. There is christian counseling and christian counseling. I do know of those who have overcome this...
Forum: Christian Marriage 9th November 2012, 06:49 PM
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Re: Husband doesn't want sex

Seems to me that he was already addicted before he was married.The symptoms you describe Molly are well known. I agree with what you say. In these cases the normal sexual drive is diverted to the...
Forum: Christian Marriage 13th September 2012, 08:20 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

I know 1okgal is right. We have seen many instances of it on here alone. It is a question of degree and what is actually happening in the mind but yes I would say it can be mental adultery. If Jesus...
Forum: Christian Marriage 27th January 2012, 08:54 AM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

No she hasn't yet but they obviously decided to let it happen if it did. They have to work out things regarding her qualification but I think she is set on being a doctor from when she was a little...
Forum: Christian Marriage 26th January 2012, 07:17 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

Crumbs! He just rang and his wife is pregnant! I have to sit down. Proof of the pudding and all that. Obviously did away with birth control.
Forum: Christian Marriage 26th January 2012, 06:07 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

Interesting, but whether the desire to have sex overcomes their dislike of being tactile remains a question.

One of my sons was suspected of having Aspergers at one point but he never really came...
Forum: Christian Marriage 25th January 2012, 01:23 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

Do husbands with Aspergers not like sex then?
Forum: Christian Marriage 4th August 2011, 06:38 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

Everyone can read your PM's on here Chamomile so it's not really private.
Forum: Christian Marriage 31st July 2011, 06:52 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

I don't think it is the spouses responsibility to get the husband or wife saved. That is too much responsibility for anyone, but it does say as Forever has quoted "How do you know O wife whether you...
Forum: Christian Marriage 29th July 2011, 10:24 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

What do you do in women's ministry Chosen? That's if you can say on a site like this. Our housegroup has stopped for the summer which gives me a break as the leader. If you are out that much it is...
Forum: Christian Marriage 29th July 2011, 06:25 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

See Chosen is not a stay at home wife all the time. As well as swimming and walking she is now to be part of a Rock Choir!

I do see both your points Chamomile and Chosen. Accepting the...
Forum: Christian Marriage 28th July 2011, 07:38 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

I think you are right about soft porn Chosen. He seemed to be sneaky about it so he was under temptation and succumbing to it it seems. It is easy for a man to satisfy himself sexually on other stuff...
Forum: Christian Marriage 7th July 2011, 10:20 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

He must be terribly exhausted if he is around your age Today. You are obviously suspicious of his excuses. As a man I spring into life even when I'm tired. I suppose exhaustion is another thing. What...
Forum: Christian Marriage 7th July 2011, 09:55 AM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

Today do you know the reason for the lack of sex?

I can't imagine he is in to porn being a leader with you but it is possible. This can be one cause. Another reason could be private mb. Sometimes...
Forum: Christian Marriage 5th July 2011, 07:47 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

Maybe we are coming from different places Forever. I was interested that you seemed to say a woman can leave her husband because of refusal on scriptural grounds. I was curious as to what scripture...
Forum: Christian Marriage 5th July 2011, 06:41 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

I don't quite see that the passage covers a woman who is being refused sex which is what I asked and what you quoted originally. i.e. I don't see the grounds for leaving a husband because there is no...
Forum: Christian Marriage 5th July 2011, 01:17 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

Forever wrote:

I think if we are truly being "refused" at ANY age, we have the option to leave and remain unmarried (according to Scripture)...the leaving signifies to the spouse that there needs...
Forum: Christian Marriage 1st July 2011, 12:45 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Husband doesn't want sex

That's very insightful Chamomile.

By the way is your husband back living with you now? I wasn't sure as you don't seem to have a current thread about it. Are things progressing a little?
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