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Forum: Marriage Help 21st June 2013, 12:18 PM
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Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

There is one more 'little' problem. Now she is feeling the pinch, she has started talking about 'child maintenance'. I (should not have) said jokingly: "we will see about that". Then she started...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th June 2013, 11:35 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

I have, I said to her: "you are now living on benefits while your solicitor has probably ordered herself a new BMW"
Forum: Marriage Help 20th June 2013, 08:51 PM
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Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

Well, now the wife is really stroppy as she has no money and I will not lend her any.

I am starting to think she now believes it is my fault she is in this situation......

Hello? Where is the...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th June 2013, 07:21 PM
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Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

I do not think it is necessarily a bad thing (or I always look for the silver lining). Her parents are far from being rich and they must be realising that she is throwing away their money for her...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th June 2013, 06:06 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

The wife was stroppy in the morning as I gave a mobile phone to my D9 daughter and she has been calling me (mostly to complain about her mother). She told me the girls were staying with her today and...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th June 2013, 08:44 PM
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Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

She is not showing me affection but I am buying the presents in order to prove to myself (and to herself) that I am more than willing to do this, even under the circumstances; they could be good-bye...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th June 2013, 01:53 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

Yes, I am trying to show my wife that I can fix the things I did wrong in the past although it may be too late.

For my wife, taking her out, small presents, attention, etc, were the things that...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th June 2013, 09:10 AM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

Definitely, her looking for another man was caused 90% by my neglect. I am starting to believe that her ambition for the OM's 4 bedroom house and his fancy car are only justification in her mind to...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th June 2013, 10:11 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

I discussed it with some people and I cannot really move to plan 180 now because of the girls. My wife and I talk all the time and organise what the girls are doing on a daily basis. I have been...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th June 2013, 10:07 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

She only started to apply for benefits when I moved out and left her without money.

There is only one thing: I have never bought her fancy presents in all the time we have been married and she ...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th June 2013, 12:42 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

People have not come back to the thread but I thought I would ask. I am noving out now. We are getting along well. My wife's birthday is coming soon. She asked me to buy her a book she wants for her...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th June 2013, 12:53 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

The saga continues. As I said before, my wife is broke, she keeps telling me that she has no money and she tells the girls in front of me. She found money (£1000) to pay the overdue rent, I still do...
Forum: Marriage Help 26th May 2013, 06:06 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

That is exactly it, she made me look like the bad man with a number of people, then I spoke to them and then they took my side.

I want the parents to make her see what she is doing wrong which is...
Forum: Marriage Help 26th May 2013, 12:11 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

I have asked my wife to let me talk to her parents, I said to her that I would not talk to them behind her back. I asked her to set up a Skype conversation with her as interpreter. She said that...
Forum: Marriage Help 25th May 2013, 05:51 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

She can get job seekers allowance soon and benefits after I leave
Forum: Marriage Help 24th May 2013, 10:43 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

She is looking for a job but I also think that she has seen the reality in that it will take her a lot of time to find it so she will have to ask for benefits to live on. What a difference from the...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd May 2013, 01:29 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

Not much progress after the talks, I think some of the things I tell her about how wrong she is to be unfaithful to her family plus the fact that her relationship with the OM has little chance of...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th May 2013, 08:07 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

All these things are exactly what we are discussing now. I will report.
Forum: Marriage Help 20th May 2013, 06:42 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

The OM does not have kids, he was married and did not have kids. He has told the wife he cannot have them. So she is certainly not looking for a more virile guy. If she thinks she can compensate for...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th May 2013, 09:52 AM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

I have just realised something that makes me sad. With my wife losing her job and the fact that she got the OM by concentrating all her efforts on her appearance and now is promising sex and company...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th May 2013, 05:41 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

I understand what you are saying but my children are half Eastern European and their mother is from the same country as this lady I met through the dating site.

My wife did not even give two...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th May 2013, 04:26 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

Yes my daughter protested when I told her that this woman in the website had a 4 year old boy (scammers will not put men off with children).

That my daughters could end up with this man, that my...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th May 2013, 10:43 AM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

I would like advice about asking the wife directly to end the relationship with the OM, this time for good.

I have been adviced to follow a 'plan A' as described in this link, in a attempt to lead...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th May 2013, 08:38 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

For the simple reason that the fact that a potential spouse lives next door does not necessarily mean that they have got more in common with you than somebody who lives 4000 miles away. And I...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th May 2013, 08:30 PM
Replies: 307
Views: 155,288
Posted By freddie
Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

That thing about people who re-marry after divorcing my wife also told me once but that was before all this started. However, I understand that many re-marry after having had one or more...
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