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Forum: Marriage Help 23rd December 2015, 10:27 AM
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Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Yet another " I love you but I'm not in love with you" thread

Happy Holidays to you as well. My D should be finished before February. L is working on finalising it now so let's see how that one works out. In the mean time I have a lot of organising to do....
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd December 2015, 06:44 PM
Replies: 1,518
Views: 588,937
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Yet another " I love you but I'm not in love with you" thread

Hey LDT. The house is getting there, slowly. I'll be painting again tonight but it's taking it's time getting sorted. I personally have been great. Having a blast with S10 these days and so glad to...
Forum: Marriage Help 21st December 2015, 03:11 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 9,019
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: How to tell if i'm being over sensitive? views please?

Hi mirry. Sorry you find yourself here. I have a question.




Are you emotionally prepared for your H choosing his friend? This is the thing with ultimatums, you need to be prepared to follow...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st December 2015, 10:12 PM
Replies: 19
Views: 28,272
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: My wife left me for a guy she just met at work :( will she regret

JKu.

Sorry you are here my friend. Take it from a vet that's just coming out of the other end. Your sitch isn't uncommon. Mine is VERY similar to yours and Roncco's and there are a lot of men out...
Forum: Marriage Help 27th November 2015, 09:49 PM
Replies: 27
Views: 20,582
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: My husband doesn't feel the same about me and needs some time to think

MHi halfpint. Sorry you find yourself here.

I've read your sitch and I'm sorry. You don't deserve this. I know you've repeatedly said there isn't anyone else involved but I think you should...
Forum: Marriage Help 24th November 2015, 12:56 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 9,270
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Wife doesn't want to leave the house. What are my rights?

Personal savings are the same. If they are amassed during the M then they will be split 50/50. Same with the pensions. If you were paying into private pensions then you need a CETV that covers the...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd November 2015, 07:03 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 9,270
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Wife doesn't want to leave the house. What are my rights?

Hi Nick. Sorry you are here.

I'm in the UK currently in the D process and I can confirm Chosen is correct. It doesn't matter who's name is on the deeds nor who pays for what. It also doesn't...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th November 2015, 05:44 PM
Replies: 1,518
Views: 588,937
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Yet another " I love you but I'm not in love with you" thread

Thanks Ralf/LDT

Yea, I have hope. Ooodles of it. I know S10 and I will be great. Sure it'll be difficult over the next few weeks but once the move is complete, just like you said LDT it'll be a...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th November 2015, 12:57 PM
Replies: 1,518
Views: 588,937
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Yet another " I love you but I'm not in love with you" thread

Hi Guys, thanks for thinking of me

I'm doing great. Just waiting till moving day then I can finally put this sorry mess behind me. I can't believe it's been over a year now. WW has her own place...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th October 2015, 01:38 PM
Replies: 2,137
Views: 997,743
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

As chosen said just 4 messages up but it answers your last post



This is becoming a circular argument. You're still focusing on her instead of you.



See what I mean? Chosen is talking...
Forum: Marriage Help 28th October 2015, 11:39 PM
Replies: 2,137
Views: 997,743
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

Mate. Please listen to Chosen. I don't mean read what she said but REALLY listen. She's giving you sound advice.

You are still hanging on to the old R. Change the dynamic. Please mate for your own...
Forum: Marriage Help 27th October 2015, 02:32 PM
Replies: 2,137
Views: 997,743
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

Thanks Ralf

Believe it or not I'm actually fine. My STBX is bat sh!t crazy and to be honest I'm in a better place being out of her way. It's healthier for me like this.

I fortunately don't...
Forum: Marriage Help 27th October 2015, 12:30 PM
Replies: 2,137
Views: 997,743
Posted By notDoneYet
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd October 2015, 08:16 PM
Replies: 2,137
Views: 997,743
Posted By notDoneYet
Wink Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

[evil eyes]. Yes, I know what you mean.
Just remember the grass is green but the sky is BLUE!
Lol.
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd October 2015, 08:55 PM
Replies: 2,137
Views: 997,743
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

Hi mate

This is what I mean by expectations.

And something good will happen, if you let it.

Peace mate
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd October 2015, 08:37 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 14,787
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Fear leading to a Dead Bedroom...

HHi DB's F

I hear ya. Ok so I've seen this up close and personal also. And by reading the different meds your F is trying I'd say keep with it. Having said that a second opinion can't hurt, and it...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd October 2015, 08:00 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 14,787
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Fear leading to a Dead Bedroom...

Wow. Ok DB's F. This is very brave of you to post here. You clearly love DB but first, self diagnosis isn't a good idea. Are you in the USA?
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd October 2015, 07:56 PM
Replies: 2,137
Views: 997,743
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

There is always an objective to these things. I think you hope it'll mean she'll begin a dialogue with you in the hope for reconciliation. I'd bet my next mortgage payment on it.

That may happen....
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd October 2015, 06:31 PM
Replies: 2,137
Views: 997,743
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

Can I ask then what is the objective of the email? What are you hoping to gain from it?
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd October 2015, 06:30 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 14,787
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Fear leading to a Dead Bedroom...

Hi DB

Tell us more about this research your fiancé did. What was she researching?
Forum: Marriage Help 20th October 2015, 09:53 PM
Replies: 2,137
Views: 997,743
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

Ralf mate

I agree with Chosen. 4x2 time buddy. I think you are putting it off and I still think you have so many expectations on the outcome of this. Mate, you know I'm your buddy but if this is...
Forum: Marriage Help 15th October 2015, 08:44 PM
Replies: 2,137
Views: 997,743
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

Ha ha. You can have anything you like mate. Including a birthday card from Glen Michales Cavel Cade read out on a Saturday morning.
Forum: Marriage Help 15th October 2015, 08:14 PM
Replies: 2,137
Views: 997,743
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

No need to be envious mate. I hear you when you say your not sure on how to be happy or what the next step is. I really do. You'll figure it out. But only when the door is closed on the last 14...
Forum: Marriage Help 15th October 2015, 06:32 PM
Replies: 2,137
Views: 997,743
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

I love this post. This is exactly how I feel now. Detached and over it. Making a plan for myself and S10. I'm the only one responsible for my happiness, nobody else.

I know my M is dead. It's just...
Forum: Marriage Help 12th October 2015, 12:50 PM
Replies: 1,518
Views: 588,937
Posted By notDoneYet
Re: Yet another " I love you but I'm not in love with you" thread

Hi mate

I'm good. Been busy. I've sold my house and bought a new place. I can't wait for the next chapter of my life to start. This place is like a mill stone around my neck and its holding me...
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