Site Areas
Wedding Centre
Health Club
Marriage Clinic
Chapel
University
Citizen's Centre
Coffee Shop
Admin Centre

Contents
Articles
Books
CDs / Videos
Tips
Services

Resources
Forums
Membership
Contact Us
Site map
Link to Us

Search

Take the Couple Check-up!

Marriage Week UK

Marriage first aid

Online support for your marriage

Free Tell A Friend from Bravenet


Home > Forums
2-in-2-1 Discussion Forums  

Go Back   2-in-2-1 Discussion Forums > Search Forums

Showing results 1 to 25 of 89
Search took 0.01 seconds.
Search: Posts Made By: snowmike
Forum: Marriage Help 7th June 2013, 05:44 PM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

Well we will have to disagree. I am honest with the women I meet and I tell them the situation. My sons are in their 20s, I don't have them to focus on. They have their own lives. What do you suggest...
Forum: Marriage Help 29th May 2013, 12:28 AM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

I am sorry Chosen, but womanising as you call it, is helping. I enjoy the company of these woman - they are nice people and I like to be with them and I don't think of my ex when I am with them. They...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd May 2013, 07:53 PM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

Update - I have met 3 nice women and have got intimate with 2 of them. I have made it clear to all 3 that I am unable to commit to anyone at this time and that I am meeting other women and I am just...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th May 2013, 07:02 PM
Replies: 299
Views: 98,303
Posted By snowmike
Re: Please Help Me...

Sounds good Intact, see my thread for how well I am doing :)

- my wife had an 18 month affair.
Forum: Marriage Help 5th May 2013, 06:59 PM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

Update time.

All change. I came to the conclusion that it was not going to work and that I needed to move-on..... I asked my wife to leave to which she has agreed. She hopes to hear next week if...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th April 2013, 01:42 PM
Replies: 299
Views: 98,303
Posted By snowmike
Re: Please Help Me...

Hey Intact, just wondered how you are doing?
Forum: Marriage Help 5th April 2013, 12:36 AM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

thanks for your long, thoughtful reply.
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd April 2013, 09:45 AM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

I wanted to rebuild the marriage - a new, better marriage. I made that clear from the beginning and held out an olive branch on two/three occassions. I never said it would be easy and of course it...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd April 2013, 09:06 AM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

She said it was our choice. She seemed to side a little with my wife, which made me a little uncomfortable. To be honest, we didn't get a lot out of the councelling. At most it gave us a space in...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd April 2013, 11:16 PM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

No, i said at the last session that i didn't see much hope for the relationship and didnt book another session after the Easter break.
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd April 2013, 10:33 PM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

Update time again. Well we have been getting on a little better, but all very surfacy. Still no intimacy and after 4 months from D-day, I am getting a bit fed-up with it all. The anger has reduced...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th March 2013, 09:21 AM
Replies: 299
Views: 98,303
Posted By snowmike
Re: Please Help Me...

selfishness
Forum: Marriage Help 19th March 2013, 11:01 AM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

Thanks for the feedback Chosen. I will be bringing this up in due course at our Relate appointments. I am conscious we are not out of the woods by any means yet.
Forum: Marriage Help 19th March 2013, 10:55 AM
Replies: 299
Views: 98,303
Posted By snowmike
Re: Please Help Me...

Intact, you have coped very well with everything that has been thrown at you in recent months.

I am very glad to hear your relationship with your son is so strong. I am sure this means so much...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th March 2013, 01:19 PM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

Had a good week and weekend. :) She cuddled up beside me a few times on the settee while watching TV, so some warmth starting to return. Quite encouraging! :)

But I can't ignore the elephant in...
Forum: Marriage Help 11th March 2013, 04:55 PM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

Update time.
Lots of ups and downs still, but getting a little better I think. :) Some days I am almost despairing and other days i feel real hope. What a helter skelter of emotions..... I have shed...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th February 2013, 06:48 PM
Replies: 299
Views: 98,303
Posted By snowmike
Re: Please Help Me...

Very sorry to hear this Intact. Your wife is screwed up. Forget her!
Forum: Marriage Help 20th February 2013, 03:41 PM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

When I try to analyse my feelings, I realise I am experiencing deep hurt (of course). Sadness - there are times I feel deeply unhappy and am unhappy most of the time these days. I also have feelings...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th February 2013, 09:54 AM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

Update - lots of downs and a few ups. We are still having arguments and loads of hurt and anger keep emerging - lots of triggers. Anger has increased on her side which doesn't help. One day I want to...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th February 2013, 09:27 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 20,914
Posted By snowmike
Re: Sexless marriage?

I think this is all solveable. :) I think your wife is confused in her own head/mind - she has lost her way a bit. It sounds like she needs help to think things through. Some people aren't good at...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th February 2013, 06:39 PM
Replies: 299
Views: 98,303
Posted By snowmike
Re: Please Help Me...

That is devastating news Intact, I am so sorry to hear this.

Please feel free to post here to let you emotions out and we will support you as best we can.

Keep your focus on your son as he...
Forum: Marriage Help 14th February 2013, 12:56 AM
Replies: 299
Views: 98,303
Posted By snowmike
Re: Please Help Me...

You did the right thing Intact. I know that must have been very hard, so well done. :)
Forum: Marriage Help 13th February 2013, 04:27 PM
Replies: 299
Views: 98,303
Posted By snowmike
Re: Please Help Me...

I agree with Raymond. It is time to be hard and say you don't want her back, unless and until she cuts off any contact with any other male person who she has any romantic or emotional interest with....
Forum: Marriage Help 10th February 2013, 09:36 PM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

I am coming to realise that if I truly love my wife (as I do) then I must forgive her. I have decided this is what I must do.

We have another Relate appt. tomorrow so we will see what comes out...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th February 2013, 03:02 PM
Replies: 149
Views: 64,210
Posted By snowmike
Re: My wife had an 18 month affair

I have not forgiven her. I have simply decided that rather than end our marriage I wanted to try and rebuild it, as I still love her. I have no idea how to come to terms with what she has done for 19...
Showing results 1 to 25 of 89

 
Forum Jump

All times are GMT +1. The time now is 01:23 PM.


Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.


Top

Copyright ©1999-2024 2-in-2-1 Limited. All rights reserved. Disclaimer