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Forum: Marriage Help 26th February 2007, 11:06 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 12,514
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: Betrayed ... Bothered & Bewildered

BBB, I think your reaction is perfectly understandable. Sorry to hear about the cat - just what you need right now, eh?! Hope you get through today OK.

We were in the northeast, touring round...
Forum: Marriage Help 25th February 2007, 01:17 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 12,514
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: Betrayed ... Bothered & Bewildered

Just got back from a short break in Spain. So sorry to hear about the latest development, B&B. Can't really add anything to what everyone else has said.
Forum: Coffee Shop Chat 17th February 2007, 01:17 AM
Replies: 2,195
Views: 1,516,658
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: Living In A Sexless Marriage

Rex,

It's not easy and sometimes it can take time. This is a list I lifted off my blog and not aimed at you necessarily. It's based purely on my own experience and might not fit your situation at...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th February 2007, 11:16 AM
Replies: 397
Views: 257,644
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

B&B, a sense of humour and a positive attitude are two of the most important things to bring to a marriage and you seem to have both in abundance. Your husband is a very lucky guy.
Forum: Coffee Shop Chat 16th February 2007, 08:25 AM
Replies: 2,195
Views: 1,516,658
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: Living In A Sexless Marriage

...and then there was another period about 5 years or so ago when her sex drive dropped again. Not quite so dramatic this time, we weren't completely sexless but sex dwindled to maybe once in every...
Forum: Coffee Shop Chat 16th February 2007, 01:50 AM
Replies: 2,195
Views: 1,516,658
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: Living In A Sexless Marriage

Su, same here. We went through a period about 10 years ago where my wife suddenly went off sex - we had two small children at the time, too. I tried to be as loving as possible, not pressuring her...
Forum: This is my marriage 16th February 2007, 01:33 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 9,926
Posted By perfectmarriage
Wed 14 Feb

I change my normal morning routine a little. Instead of showering before the children leave for school I leave that until afterwards. Then, after Sue and I have exchanged cards, I slip back into bed...
Forum: This is my marriage 16th February 2007, 01:26 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 9,926
Posted By perfectmarriage
Tues 13 Feb

After the children have gone to school and Sue has gone to work I spend an hour or so working and then spend over an hour in a meeting with Mum and Dad's social worker to discuss whether their care...
Forum: This is my marriage 16th February 2007, 01:25 AM
Replies: 7
Views: 9,926
Posted By perfectmarriage
Mon 12 Feb

Usual morning procedure: getting up at 7.15, getting children ready for school, and giving the dog his breakfast - the spoiled thing has three meals a day, breakfast, lunch and tea. In fact, he is...
Forum: Marriage Help 15th February 2007, 04:43 PM
Replies: 397
Views: 257,644
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

That's excellent, B&B. Sounds like you handled it very well. I do so hope it works out well in the long run.

Love your sig line by the way. :)
Forum: Marriage Help 14th February 2007, 08:17 PM
Replies: 397
Views: 257,644
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

That's OK, Helen, peek away! :)

I agree entirely with what you say, Helen, although I wonder if he would be able to give it up all on his own, especially if he is under peer pressure from his work...
Forum: Marriage Help 14th February 2007, 05:22 PM
Replies: 397
Views: 257,644
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

B&B, well, if he wants to get hard core let him get hard core with the CB3000! :)

Just a thought: instead of confronting him with the porn, perhaps you could propose something like the CB3000 as a...
Forum: Marriage Help 14th February 2007, 03:56 PM
Replies: 397
Views: 257,644
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

B&B, sorry, you must have sent your reply when I was still typing. Do you have any evidence that you can confront him with? I don't know if there is an easy way, I think you just have to come out...
Forum: Marriage Help 14th February 2007, 03:47 PM
Replies: 397
Views: 257,644
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

B&B, I'm so sorry to hear of your situation.

Is it possible to restrict his access to porn? Does he get access from your home PC, or somewhere else? If somewhere else then I don't know what...
Forum: Christian Marriage 13th February 2007, 01:23 AM
Replies: 48
Views: 102,794
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: Christian Marriage Sex Forum

OK, fair enough.
Forum: This is my marriage 12th February 2007, 05:25 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 9,926
Posted By perfectmarriage
Sun 11 Feb

Daughter has a paper round on Sunday mornings and I get up with her. I'm not sure why - she is easily capable of getting herself up and sorting herself out, but I do it anyway.

Once she has left...
Forum: This is my marriage 12th February 2007, 05:07 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 9,926
Posted By perfectmarriage
Sat 10 Feb

Sue and I usually lie in on Saturday mornings if possible and get up as late as we can get away with. One of the great things about the children now being teenagers is that they are capable of...
Forum: Marriage Help 12th February 2007, 10:29 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 6,392
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: Time to Give Up?

I can't really give any advice here because I can't project myself into your situation. I simply can't imagine not wanting sex with my wife. So anything I say here is simply guesswork - nothing more...
Forum: Christian Marriage 11th February 2007, 11:31 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 102,794
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: Christian Marriage Sex Forum

Raymond, I'm not a Christian so I hesitate to post in a thread called 'Christian Marriage Sex Forum' but...

What is so wrong about fantasising about spanking? If your wife doesn't mind, what's the...
Forum: Christian Marriage 11th February 2007, 05:17 PM
Replies: 48
Views: 98,794
Posted By perfectmarriage
Re: Do christian/atheist marriages work?

My wife and I have been married for 22 years. She is a committed Christian and I am a staunch atheist. Has it made any difference? No. Has it created even the slightest problem? Emphatically no.
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Forum: This is my marriage 11th February 2007, 12:54 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 9,926
Posted By perfectmarriage
Fri 9 Feb

My birthday. Sue has the day off today - hooray!

She insists that I stay in bed this morning and she and Daughter bring me tea and toast in bed, together with my present. I'm very surprised and...
Forum: This is my marriage 11th February 2007, 12:34 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 9,926
Posted By perfectmarriage
Thurs 8 Feb

The school is closed today due to snow - the first we've had for over a year. The children go off to friends' houses so I have the house to myself most of the day. I enjoy taking the dog for a walk...
Forum: This is my marriage 11th February 2007, 12:32 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 9,926
Posted By perfectmarriage
Ed and Sue, South Wales, UK

I like this idea of blogging about your marriage for a week so here goes...

Wed 7 Feb

My wife, Sue, works part time in a local office and I work from home.

Wednesday 7th started out like any...
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