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Forum: Marriage Help 11th July 2014, 09:15 PM
Replies: 807
Views: 522,021
Posted By toellandback
Re: I really don't know what to do! Help needed please

I'm not sure if it helps but I tried forcing the "date thing. It lead to my wife pulling further away and be coming very angry. It was only when I started going places without her and not contacting...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th July 2014, 09:17 PM
Replies: 255
Views: 100,167
Posted By toellandback
Smile Re: Is my marriage over ?

Hi everyone. I'm hoping this post finds you all well , particularly those who were here to help me through some terrible moments. I still drop in regularly and read some posts. It's apparent that the...
Forum: Marriage Help 24th April 2014, 09:17 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 12,504
Posted By toellandback
Re: Wife wants separation...

Hi there. I just read your post and how many of us have been where you are. It takes a leap of faith to do it but give her exactly what she asks for. In a nice understanding way. Stay strong , make...
Forum: Marriage Help 12th March 2014, 10:52 AM
Replies: 255
Views: 100,167
Posted By toellandback
Re: Is my marriage over ?

July 14th 2013 I'm admitted to hospital so they can put my ankle back together. But my marriage, home and job are seemingly all gone. Everything seemed so hopeless.
Well glad to say that I've got...
Forum: Marriage Help 25th January 2014, 12:46 AM
Replies: 184
Views: 102,678
Posted By toellandback
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

Your words are very kind. Chosen and Raymond helped me so much. I am not one for excessive emotion. But they both changed my life. Simply by answering. I'm not a believer in one god. But I believe in...
Forum: Marriage Help 24th January 2014, 05:34 PM
Replies: 184
Views: 102,678
Posted By toellandback
Smile Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

Hands up anyone here that has felt like just giving up at some point, just curling up and giving in to that exhaustion plaguing our minds and bodies when everything becomes so difficult to maintain....
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd January 2014, 07:26 PM
Replies: 169
Views: 70,835
Posted By toellandback
Re: Wife left without much explanation

My brother's and I were all beaten regularly with belts by our stepfather. It to seems alien to me and still gives us restless times. It does carry forward and affects our actions daily. We were...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd January 2014, 05:57 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 17,676
Posted By toellandback
Smile Re: Wife Unhappy After Moving Area

Hi roses. Just to clarify, I was refering to my first wife. I'm still ok with this one lol. My first wife is my childrens mother. She exhibited similar traits.
Forum: Marriage Help 21st January 2014, 05:32 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 17,676
Posted By toellandback
Re: Wife Unhappy After Moving Area

Hi. Just a quick reply as im working. My first wife and I split after years of the same behaviour. We eventually had four children though I desperately wanted to stop earlier. I worked all hours...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th January 2014, 05:22 PM
Replies: 169
Views: 70,835
Posted By toellandback
Re: Wife left without much explanation

Her words seem harsh BM. "cant be bothered" . But its all part of the same routine I suffered. I think you should just let stuff like that sail over your head. It's sometimes done for the reaction....
Forum: Marriage Help 17th January 2014, 12:54 PM
Replies: 169
Views: 70,835
Posted By toellandback
Re: Wife left without much explanation

I think 3 to 4 months overall BM. The saving grace was my family. I don't know how I would have got through it all otherwise. I clung to this forum too. It helped me so much. Puglove was going...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th January 2014, 08:41 AM
Replies: 169
Views: 70,835
Posted By toellandback
Re: Wife left without much explanation

Your last post does you justice BM. I admire what your doing and how you are conducting your life given the circumstances. Your wife probably sees this. Whilst it may not lead to a reunion it is the...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th January 2014, 12:02 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By toellandback
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

My mum always said to look out for the quiet ones chosen , does this mean I must keep my eye on Raymond ?? :)
Forum: Marriage Help 16th January 2014, 10:37 AM
Replies: 169
Views: 70,835
Posted By toellandback
Re: Wife left without much explanation

I think your doing everything right. I found it difficult changing my behaviour but ultimately it proved to be for the best. The limbo period is difficult and seems to last forever. That knot in the...
Forum: Marriage Help 11th January 2014, 08:26 AM
Replies: 169
Views: 70,835
Posted By toellandback
Re: Wife left without much explanation

I think you have said something important here BM. The part about not being respectful is so very integral to my own situation. We loved each other but had forgotten to respect and really understand...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th January 2014, 10:31 AM
Replies: 169
Views: 70,835
Posted By toellandback
Re: Wife left without much explanation

It sounds like you are coping better than I did. Well done. Your wife is almost certainly keeping you hanging on for a reason. My wife actually got angry when I went away for a short break even...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th January 2014, 10:24 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 8,433
Posted By toellandback
Re: Happy new year.

Because I'm tired !!!
LOL
Forum: Marriage Help 10th January 2014, 10:23 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 8,433
Posted By toellandback
Re: Happy new year.

I wish you both happiness this new year. I've a feeling it may well be a year where changes occur. Hopefully throughout this year we may all be blessed with our own peace x
Forum: Marriage Help 10th January 2014, 10:06 AM
Replies: 169
Views: 70,835
Posted By toellandback
Re: Wife left without much explanation

Hi BM
Sorry your suffering right now. I'm no expert on some of the deep issues you raise. However, I've recently been seperated from my wife. I had all that dialogue from her about finding herself...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th January 2014, 09:34 AM
Replies: 169
Views: 70,835
Posted By toellandback
Re: Wife left without much explanation

Hi BM
Sorry your suffering right now. I'm no expert on some of the deep issues you raise. However, I've recently been seperated from my wife. I had all that dialogue from her about finding herself...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd December 2013, 09:19 AM
Replies: 255
Views: 100,167
Posted By toellandback
Re: Is my marriage over ?

Hi everyone :)
Just had to drop by and wish my friends on here a very happy xmas and a wonderful new year. It's perhaps fitting for me that this was the year 13, looking back I cannot begin to put...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd December 2013, 02:59 PM
Replies: 255
Views: 100,167
Posted By toellandback
Smile Re: Is my marriage over ?

Thank you Roses :) Don't tell anyone else but I really wish I didn't need to post at all LOL.
Im still posting as I feel I still need help and guidance. Advice. Hopefully one day I might find I...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd December 2013, 01:16 PM
Replies: 255
Views: 100,167
Posted By toellandback
Smile Re: Is my marriage over ?

Hi again.
Thanks for all those replies, its interesting reading but not all that reassuring !! I think your right , my wifes always had to play both roles in her sons lives. It's why she divorced...
Forum: Marriage Help 27th November 2013, 02:30 PM
Replies: 255
Views: 100,167
Posted By toellandback
Smile Re: Is my marriage over ?

Hello Raymond. They are 22 & 19. Both working. Permanently , at least for now. It would be easier if I could see a scenario where they might leave. Trouble is, boundaries or not , its easier for them...
Forum: Marriage Help 26th November 2013, 05:13 PM
Replies: 255
Views: 100,167
Posted By toellandback
Smile Re: Is my marriage over ?

Hi all. It's been difficult , very difficult this week. Finally everyone is back under the same roof. I'm on edge about her sons being there, it was nice having a few days together before they...
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