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Forum: Marriage Help 17th September 2010, 12:10 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 5,741
Posted By UpandDown
Re: 1 Year next week

Hi Natalia

Thank you so much for posting this - it's really given me the boost I needed tonight. I'm so glad you're doing so well. You seem to be going about it the right way. I'm so glad...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th September 2010, 12:20 AM
Replies: 17
Views: 12,699
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Advice needed on how to repair my relationship

Hi Cath

I'm just off to bed so can't write much but I just wanted to say we are all with you! I'm sure you've come to the right place and will find the advice and support you are looking for.
...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th September 2010, 05:04 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 43,083
Posted By UpandDown
Re: urgently in need of advice

Oh yes, I agree actually.
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Forum: Marriage Help 9th September 2010, 02:30 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 43,083
Posted By UpandDown
Re: urgently in need of advice

I feel so sad reading this D and C because these are exactly the sort of things my H was saying to me. The only difference was that because I was a woman who did the bulk of the childcare I was...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th September 2010, 06:33 PM
Replies: 106
Views: 43,083
Posted By UpandDown
Re: urgently in need of advice

Hi Dazed

I've only just caught up with your thread and I'm so sorry for what you're going through. I remember living under those circumstances and it was unbearable - it's amazing you've been...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th September 2010, 12:07 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 16,222
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Husband had an affair and is denying it

Just a little further update - I spoke to the Official Receiver today and it all went really well. I shouldn't have to do any more and I can even keep my car! Yay!
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Forum: Marriage Help 7th September 2010, 09:39 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 16,222
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Husband had an affair and is denying it

Thanks Ann.

He was in a terrible mood last week. He told me he was upset with me for telling Paul (Linda's husband) about the bankruptcy and also that he was violent. He believed that those...
Forum: Marriage Help 6th September 2010, 10:52 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 27,317
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Big Mistake

Well done Ann! BTW please let me know on my thread what went on with Dan in the end. I saw he took the song off altogether. He's now blaming me for Linda dumping him....go figure!!
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Forum: Marriage Help 5th September 2010, 10:08 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 7,425
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Back again 1 year on starting to feel it all again

Hi Sean

I really feel for you. It was so terrible what you went through a year ago and a lot of us on here have been through similarly devastating times and know what it's like. Until you sort...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd September 2010, 11:31 PM
Replies: 143
Views: 74,881
Posted By UpandDown
Re: I want to understand

Oh SA I can totally relate to that - that's all we ever wanted them to be happy. Unfortunately they have to find it for themselves.

Thinking of you and really looking forward to seeing you on...
Forum: Marriage Help 31st August 2010, 07:39 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 16,222
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Husband had an affair and is denying it

Just a quick update - having read his comments to Ann I think he definitely posted the song because he thinks it's good, not because he wants to communicate with anyone. He will pretend the song...
Forum: Marriage Help 31st August 2010, 11:56 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 16,222
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Husband had an affair and is denying it

Just seen it. Note to everyone - it would hurt him more if you say the song and the voice aren't very good!!!

Probably best we all just restrain ourselves though, otherwise he'll get suspicious. ...
Forum: Marriage Help 31st August 2010, 11:52 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 16,222
Posted By UpandDown
Forum: Marriage Help 30th August 2010, 05:36 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 16,222
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Husband had an affair and is denying it

PS Chosen and anyone else who doesn't know, I have had two threads going which is why there's a chunk of time missing from this one. I'm going to try and remember to just post on this one now...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th August 2010, 05:30 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 16,222
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Husband had an affair and is denying it

Hi everyone

I really have no idea why he posted the song. From his behaviour and the fact that Paul has removed his single status from Facebook I am sure him and Linda are no longer together,...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th August 2010, 08:00 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 16,222
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Husband had an affair and is denying it

Hi Chosen

Thanks for your reply. I went to the solicitor two weeks ago and have started divorce proceedings so that's all underway and Dan said he wouldn't contest it. I'm on benefits and Dan is...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th August 2010, 12:18 AM
Replies: 143
Views: 74,881
Posted By UpandDown
Re: I want to understand

Hi SA

Dying to know what's going on your end but I have lost my phone!! I have now also got my pain patch on so might be out of action for a day or two. However, as soon as I find my phone i'll...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th August 2010, 12:16 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 16,222
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Husband had an affair and is denying it

Hi everyone

I haven't updated my thread in a while. Basically plodding along as normal. Dan still hasn't told me he and Linda have split up (so maybe they haven't?) although his behaviour...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th August 2010, 12:09 AM
Replies: 34
Views: 19,469
Posted By UpandDown
Re: No point really......

Hi Pete

I wish you all the luck in the world too Citing "unreasonable behaviour" on divorce papers is just a means to an end and means nothing as long as she doesn't contest which she obviously...
Forum: Marriage Help 29th August 2010, 08:15 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 27,317
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Big Mistake

I'm the same about the lying thing - I take everyone at face value. I'm 34 and I still can't see below the surface.
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Forum: Marriage Help 29th August 2010, 08:13 PM
Replies: 34
Views: 19,469
Posted By UpandDown
Re: No point really......

Hi worldbtp

It sounds like you've been an amazing husband. When I had ME my husband was wonderful to me, however, the result was that my life got smaller and smaller and I just got worse and...
Forum: Marriage Help 29th August 2010, 07:56 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 27,317
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Big Mistake

Hi Annie

When I asked what bad things you had done it was really to highlight how you're talking to yourself negatively. You did one bad thing and that was completely unintentional so it's good...
Forum: Marriage Help 28th August 2010, 12:26 AM
Replies: 50
Views: 27,317
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Big Mistake

Hi Ann

What bad things did you do?

Love Kathryn
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Forum: Marriage Help 27th August 2010, 07:35 PM
Replies: 16
Views: 17,543
Posted By UpandDown
Re: I am doing so well but it still hurts, it really does.

Hi Luce
I was just wondering how you are doing? I'm missing you so much - especially since I found out Dan left me for someone else! Can I be your friend on Facebook? You were such a huge support...
Forum: Marriage Help 26th August 2010, 10:11 PM
Replies: 50
Views: 27,317
Posted By UpandDown
Re: Big Mistake

Ann don't get sucked into this. YOU didn't upset her, HE did.

That's all there is to it.

I know you're doubting your motives for telling her etc but that doesn't detract from the fact that YOU...
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