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Forum: Marriage Help 27th May 2011, 07:13 PM
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Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Hello all,
Your thoughts are well received and appreciated. I take hope from your sharing of experiences and eventual healing. I know life is to short to be miserable. I will make my choices with...
Forum: Marriage Help 26th May 2011, 09:45 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

I have to admire the attitude expressed by people in Britain. Not to "lump you all together" but in reading your responses it seems so clear that you have a very strong, stalwart attitude and method...
Forum: Marriage Help 26th May 2011, 09:08 PM
Replies: 94
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Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

All good questions...
My plan (as yet undetermined when my son will be released) is to move to my son's house (still being renovated and at least needs the bathroom finished!), get him settled in...
Forum: Marriage Help 26th May 2011, 08:14 PM
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Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Helen,
I have to...for my son. Believe me I had to restrain myself from calling his cell this morning. I have to look at it this way (better at it sometimes than others)....I have it in my control...
Forum: Marriage Help 26th May 2011, 07:41 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Hi Chosen
No he doesn't know at this point. If I raise it now it will be a brutal end to it all as I will say everything I have felt for the past few months. I won't be able to stop. I choose not...
Forum: Marriage Help 26th May 2011, 07:30 PM
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Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

He is unaware that I know any of these new events.
. Honesty is so important I know but since he has chosen to do this I am tired of feeling like I am the only one with any integrity at all. The...
Forum: Marriage Help 26th May 2011, 07:06 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Hello Helen,
Thanks for your reply.
Yes the "trust fund" issue really hit deep. He has no such arrangements for our own children.
And of course that news to the girl will ensure contact is kept...
Forum: Marriage Help 26th May 2011, 06:44 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Hello to all of you.
I read your posts and wish you all peace in your struggles.
Update on my situation. Intervention by h's Russian language teacher in March re his on line correspondence to...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th March 2011, 08:36 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Thank you for your responses. I know what you say is true.
My "strengthening" is being worked on but has a long way to go.
You never know...maybe I'll pull the plug myself.
Forum: Marriage Help 18th March 2011, 07:37 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Sorry folks....just have to write before I explode. (I know I shouldn't listen to the madness but it hit me by complete surprise 20 minutes ago). H. got dressed up and left for another Russian...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th March 2011, 05:52 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Agreed Raymond. Frustrating when you can see little chinks of light in their armor .....even to the point of admitting it's a fantasy (at this point), yet being still willing to throw away the old on...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th March 2011, 03:25 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Yes Raymond, I am playing it coo compared to the way I want to react. I'm not fooled into thinking he has this all settled in his mind that it is best to give up on his quest. Yes it is something...
Forum: Marriage Help 18th March 2011, 04:12 AM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

While you sleep....
An "event" occurred. H. thought we were "getting along" so well that we may well think of trying to "reconnect". Said he should write to his "lady friends" and tell them we were...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2011, 10:04 PM
Replies: 423
Views: 109,227
Posted By lilac
Re: Help me

My heart goes out to you David. So hard to hear those words after trying as you have to give every opportunity for better ones.
Yes I believe there is always hope. The hard part is to make sure...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2011, 09:57 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

No apology for "hijacking" necessary ijm. I am glad this was all ironed out between you two. If only other "misunderstandings" could be dealt with and put to right so easily!!
Excellent news that...
Forum: Marriage Help 15th March 2011, 09:56 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Not to step on anyones toes........
ijm...I appreciate you for the caring person you are. Having your own things to work on and still being willing and available to help others....that says it all...
Forum: Marriage Help 15th March 2011, 09:18 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Hello Huting....so very good to hear from you. I dearly hope all is going well for you!
I haven't been on as "things" have been so tumultuous that I found it hard to write about. H and I have talked...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th March 2011, 09:31 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 4,233
Posted By lilac
Re: thankyou:Please read

Dear ijm,
I am laughing with tears flowing down my face with joy for you!!!
My deepest wishes for success with your marriage. I'm so proud you two are going to work forward together.
There is a...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th March 2011, 09:17 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Thanks im-just-me.....his silly plan is all for the sake of "I'm tired of being hurt(???) and haven't got to do what I wanted to do in life" (because he married me and had 3 kids). Well I too can...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th March 2011, 04:34 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Just an added note im-just-me.....
One of the really aggrevating things with my situation is the fact that his plans will no doubt be fruitful for him. He has lied and charmed his way into the heart...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th March 2011, 04:05 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Thank you im-just-me for your understanding. I know so many others go through this and make it. It's just the "moment-to-moment horror of it all that gets to you at times. The lies and not caring...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th March 2011, 03:49 PM
Replies: 423
Views: 109,227
Posted By lilac
Re: Help me

David,
We are all learning from our experiences, as painful as they are. At least you are one of the people who have come to know the important ways a marriage should be managed. There will always...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th March 2011, 04:36 AM
Replies: 423
Views: 109,227
Posted By lilac
Re: Help me

Hello David,
Never having posted on your thread before, but having read it all, I just had to comment. You are a most wonderful, considerate, loving man whom any wife would be priveledged to have as...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th March 2011, 01:17 AM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Does anyone have any answers as to how I hold myself together with dignity in front of my kids? None of them take crying and being upset very well. I just feel that I will be curled up on the floor...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th March 2011, 01:00 AM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By lilac
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Hello Raymond and anyone else still awake out there.
I took your advice to a point Raymond and asked him why he had to go to the city in such a "secretive" whispering to borrow a car way. He ended...
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