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Forum: Marriage Help 25th March 2011, 02:36 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 17,015
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Girl Who Haunts Me

great advice there from mseraz, see your doctor or at least talk to a counsellor who can help you work through your feelings, we know that your feelings are real, and it does hurt and you are...
Forum: Marriage Help 25th March 2011, 02:28 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 13,927
Posted By im-just-me
Re: I'm conflicted...HELP!

i agree with mseraz in that marriage should be about the joining of 2 equals, both making equal decisions, choices, not feeling inferior to the other one. im unsure about the law regarding this, but...
Forum: Marriage Help 24th March 2011, 04:15 PM
Replies: 52
Views: 13,927
Posted By im-just-me
Re: I'm conflicted...HELP!

I was just wondering what do you do if he achieves his goals? I hope you reward these too. Its alittle weird but each to their own and if like you say he came to you with the idea and is consenting...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd March 2011, 11:54 AM
Replies: 38
Views: 17,015
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Girl Who Haunts Me

It wasn't her I think got me done for it mostly the managers work policy. Keep my wife out of this please that is a separate issue. I have moved on and proof of that is when I left the...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd March 2011, 08:52 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 17,015
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Girl Who Haunts Me

u came on here to get answers.but the answers you got you do not like as they are not what you wanted to hear and you see them as negative. However they are not negative but realistic. You are being...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2011, 04:27 PM
Replies: 29
Views: 8,492
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Please help me see straight

If she doesn't have time to put you as her husband then you can do it on your side of Facebook. I can understand both sides when it comes to the password.she feels you don't trust her and that's...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2011, 04:12 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

Raymond I apologize it was a misunderstanding. I thought it meant something else. Thanks for being so caring. I understand now. And sorry lilac for hijacking your thread. I'm good thankyou raymond....
Forum: Marriage Help 16th March 2011, 11:56 AM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

that is what you did wrong raymond, huting is me, i used a previous username just incase my husband checked, but we have talked and hes ok with me coming on here to help, i just dont think he wants...
Forum: Marriage Help 15th March 2011, 09:57 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

the mixed messages arent good, if he was truly sorry and wanted to work on your marriage then he would drop the russian thing all together including not going there. does he expect you to just be...
Forum: Marriage Help 15th March 2011, 09:47 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

raymond, that was very rude, i just wanted lilac to know that i am still here for her, i never did anything to hurt you raymond and i am sorry if my husband offended you, but i am not him, i have...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th March 2011, 09:22 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 4,233
Posted By im-just-me
thankyou:Please read

i would just like to thank everyone that helped me through on this site. its been emotional and i dont think i would have got through it without all of your support. my husband was understandably...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th March 2011, 10:51 AM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,689
Posted By im-just-me
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

has your husband said that he would like to work on the marriage and come back? do you want him too? it does sound like an emotional affair and that they havent met up, but that doesnt make its right...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th March 2011, 10:02 AM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,689
Posted By im-just-me
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

as he actually met up with this woman or is an emotional affair? (both are bad) but if it is just an emotional affair you may be able to nip it on the bud now and try and work things out (if that is...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th March 2011, 09:55 AM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,689
Posted By im-just-me
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

how truly terrible, i am sorry that you find yourself on here. what did your husband say when you confronted him? did he say sorry, a reason perhaps. i know no reason is valid for infedility i was...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th March 2011, 05:07 PM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

they cant not believe you, if he does actually leave you and become involved with a russian woman, the evidence will speak for itself. and i completely understand where youre coming from lilac, if my...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th March 2011, 10:00 AM
Replies: 94
Views: 33,728
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Yet another new plea for help.

poor lilac, how terrible, i have no idea how things get this way especially when 1 thinks things are good whilst the other is planning a whole new life without the one they supposedly loved once, do...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th March 2011, 09:41 AM
Replies: 423
Views: 109,227
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Help me

easier said than done, i know, im sitting here thinking after posting this, the only regret i will have is why he didnt feel the same, why wasnt i worth fighting for? why does 10 years mean nothing...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th March 2011, 09:04 AM
Replies: 423
Views: 109,227
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Help me

oh david not a good move to read her diary, if you comment on this she will know that you have been snooping so to speak, and any progress you have made will be lost. it may be that she is looking at...
Forum: Marriage Help 4th March 2011, 02:56 PM
Replies: 423
Views: 109,227
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Help me

im giving my hiusband a really hard time to not want to come home, and it seems to be working, i dont mean by nagging but by doing little nice things, watching films we both like, doing more things...
Forum: Marriage Help 4th March 2011, 07:56 AM
Replies: 423
Views: 109,227
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Help me

how do you know she feels worse now then she did 2 months ago? did you ask her how she felt 2 months ago? i think your reading into everything, and you do that when youre trying to find answers, but...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd March 2011, 02:14 PM
Replies: 423
Views: 109,227
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Help me

if you ask her direct questions now, it will not be the answers you want to hear. i feel you need to give her time, keep showing her that you care, youve changed. she will say that its too late, that...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd March 2011, 09:14 PM
Replies: 423
Views: 109,227
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Help me

telling her your sorry again is a good thing so she knows that your serious and didnt just spout it off. forgiveness takes time, she wont just wake up one day and it will all be forgiven, itll be...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd March 2011, 05:26 PM
Replies: 6
Views: 4,497
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Please Help

it may help if you look at why you argued? what was the nature of the arguments? u dont have to share this with us but have a think about it. then is there anything you can do to change these? adapt...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd March 2011, 05:20 PM
Replies: 368
Views: 95,448
Posted By im-just-me
Re: MY wife has left me please help me make sense of this

i think its easier when you have someone to fall back on, its almost like you dont have to worry what you do because there will always be someone to help, fall back on. her mom is doing this and it...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd March 2011, 05:15 PM
Replies: 423
Views: 109,227
Posted By im-just-me
Re: Help me

i feel that part of the problem here is that you want the marriage to be fine.NOW and its not going to work like that, you need to be patient, and yes it is hard, but only time will tell. carry on...
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