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Forum: Marriage Help 16th December 2005, 05:47 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 10,648
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: How can I save my marriage

I'm sure the moderators will note that you began not by disagreeing, but by passing an insulting opinion on my psychology.

Most people understand that rights to disagree are bi-lateral; i.e. if...
Forum: Marriage Help 16th December 2005, 11:59 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 10,648
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: How can I save my marriage

The disparity in ages is a key issue. That is why Katyb picked it up in her first sentence. Also, was she eighteen at the time? Or seventeen a year ago? (Certainly she will have been over 16; there...
Forum: Marriage Help 15th December 2005, 07:57 PM
Replies: 24
Views: 10,648
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: How can I save my marriage

Dear London

My general stance is that marriage is a good thing and should be saved and supported even in some cases where other people might call it a day, especially when children are involved. I...
Forum: Marriage Help 15th December 2005, 08:43 AM
Replies: 24
Views: 10,648
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: How can I save my marriage

Dear Katb

The trouble is, an honest and decent man might wake up one morning having mistaken himself for Mick Jagger and unaccountably found he had gone off for a night in the stationery cupboard...
Forum: Marriage Help 12th December 2005, 07:15 AM
Replies: 762
Views: 200,104
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: "Moving on" after a Separation

Dear Dazed

I'm glad you are moving on with your life. Briefly; do not under any circumstances make an argument about whether or not your children should come in to contact with your girlfriend/s....
Forum: Marriage Help 8th December 2005, 10:08 PM
Replies: 762
Views: 200,104
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: "Moving on" after a Separation

Dear Jennie

I really am sorry but your situation is so serious that options such as sitting tight don't really apply. Your solicitor appears to have advised you to not throw good money after bad...
Forum: Wedding & Engagement Help 7th December 2005, 11:42 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 9,759
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: relationship

But these are not very good words, are they?

She has cheated on a man to whom she is married and, for all you know, is the innocent sap in this. You have become the 'other man' though; and that...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th June 2005, 02:03 PM
Replies: 68
Views: 17,822
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: Can you "get back" feelings?

Dear Jools

I don't know if this link will help, but it indexes emotional issues which people who have experienced cancer might face.
...
Forum: Marriage Help 28th May 2005, 08:42 AM
Replies: 3
Views: 3,981
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: Marriage without sex?

Dear McFrosty

Since you have identified this quite early you are more than likely to be able to fix it. The question is how - and you have already identified your best bet is counselling. I know...
Forum: Marriage Help 26th May 2005, 03:09 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 3,611
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: Please help, torn between husband and daughter!

Dear Nicky

Would it be possible to get the intervention of a respected person - probably a priest similar - to speak to your H?

I don't imagine that the person will say anything different to...
Forum: Marriage Help 25th May 2005, 04:40 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 17,012
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: my wife wants me to leave my home

Dear Lazza

Things seem to have become very over-heated here and the main thing is not to react in a way which might increase the tension.

So leave aside any dispute for the moment about...
Forum: Coffee Shop Chat 24th May 2005, 12:02 AM
Replies: 1
Views: 3,378
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: Finding Harmony

Dear Valerie

It's perfectly true and reasonable to admit that nobody is perfect. However, the question I would put to myself is this:

If I had known about the internet porn and the other...
Forum: Marriage Help 13th May 2005, 11:12 PM
Replies: 1
Views: 3,532
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: Confused

Dear Mikey

I realize that the rules may not be very clear to you.

You are married now and that means working co-operatively as a partnership. It is not possible to do things spontaneously as...
Forum: Christian Marriage 12th May 2005, 01:30 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 10,981
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: Hurting Heart Needs Help

Dear Altered Heart

I'm not a Christian and I have no authority from anybody's god. So this is personal, OK?

Firstly, I think you may have had rotten counselling in the first place. Assuming...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th May 2005, 10:06 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 9,918
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: anyone else married to compulsive spender/debtor?

Dear mookett

I'm not sure how far this article is applicable:

http://www.2-in-2-1.co.uk/marriageclinic/marfirstaid/index13.html

I'd be surprised if you were alone and I suspect that there...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th May 2005, 08:36 PM
Replies: 45
Views: 12,862
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: *Spark*

Dear Alexis

Don't know whether to write 'I am glad to hear your H is back' or to say in admiration 'coo, you don't give up easy, do you girl?'

I hope you realize you are flying in the face...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th May 2005, 02:27 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 4,487
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: Any help would be grateful

Dear Waterman

I'll assume that you are thinking of some form of counselling for yourself rather than in the context of couples counselling.

The current position in the UK is that the...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th May 2005, 10:40 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 11,415
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: Finding My First Love Again but both still attached

Dear Julieann

Oh well, at least you've exorcised the ghost which has been haunting you these past 15 years.

The important thing is not to spend the next 15 thinking 'gosh, I should have worked...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th May 2005, 10:28 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 13,576
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: Confused Wife Wants to Leave

Dear BryanK

Given the long conversation which was unexpectedly helpful, perhaps this article might help:

http://www.2-in-2-1.co.uk/marriageclinic/marfirstaid/index8.html
Forum: Coffee Shop Chat 9th May 2005, 09:59 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 14,704
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: Disrespectful step daughter?

Dear Jack

I expect it might have helped if your W had stuck up for you, and you do have a fair claim for her to do just that.

However, if I recall correctly, the first rule of martial arts is...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th May 2005, 07:36 PM
Replies: 38
Views: 25,169
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: My wife does not love me anymore

Dear Maastrich

There is a long thread posted by G-Dub (Married but under threat) where, over a period of months, he and his wife managed to repair a marriage which appears to have been in a...
Forum: Marriage Help 8th May 2005, 01:54 AM
Replies: 10
Views: 4,552
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: confused but still love my wife

Dear USMCVOX

This is a very painful situation to be in and I wish I could say something to make it better. Unfortunately, I don't know of any way of lessening the loss of young love; it is...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th May 2005, 11:07 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 11,415
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: Finding My First Love Again but both still attached

Dear London

You wrote:

"In case it matters I am NOT white and am a mixture of about 6 different cultures going back to my great great grandfather and grandmother. "

Snap.

Actually, I...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th May 2005, 09:31 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 11,415
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: Finding My First Love Again but both still attached

Dear London

You haven't actually said whether you are basing your opinions on wide experience of marriages in various ethnic settings or empathy with one particular case.

If it is the former,...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th May 2005, 04:04 PM
Replies: 31
Views: 11,415
Posted By Concerned Reader
Re: Finding My First Love Again but both still attached

Dear London

You wrote:

"What you are describing is how many cultures (force the idea of and) rationalise arranged marriages".

It might be better to put this subject on a separate thread. ...
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