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Forum: Marriage Help 10th April 2015, 08:10 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 7,921
Posted By sammie38
Re: Is he being controlling?

Lindentree - I think I did it because I was annoyed when I got home, it was hot outside and hot in the house and I acted without thinking. Probably all my fault and agree that I should let it go.
Forum: Marriage Help 10th April 2015, 08:08 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 7,921
Posted By sammie38
Re: Is he being controlling?

Nothing to do with spending money, he'd already looked himself and couldn't fix it and we have Homecare cover provided by our landlord so it wouldn't cost us anything!
Forum: Marriage Help 10th April 2015, 07:53 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 7,921
Posted By sammie38
Re: Is he being controlling?

Thanks everyone, it always makes me feel better when I come on here. I haven't been around for a couple of years, mainly because I haven't felt the need but sometimes it helps to have other people's...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th April 2015, 08:25 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 7,921
Posted By sammie38
Re: Is he being controlling?

Just did, he said that our relationship works because we consult each other, maybe he's right.
Forum: Marriage Help 9th April 2015, 08:18 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 7,921
Posted By sammie38
Is he being controlling?

Please can anyone tell me whether they think my husband is being a little controlling or whether I'm not being courteous? Here's the story.... Our central heating has just been switched off yet the...
Forum: Marriage Help 13th July 2012, 04:19 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 3,983
Posted By sammie38
Re: is snooping wrong?

Hi Hope

I think you've read my post on here, at least the more recent part of it. I am exactly the same as you. I have been obsessed with checking my husband's blackberry, laptop, Facebook,...
Forum: Marriage Help 11th July 2012, 08:21 AM
Replies: 83
Views: 33,476
Posted By sammie38
Re: How do I trust him again?

I'm not sure that 'believing' helps! If it did, none of this would have happened in the first place. Whilst I appreciate that faith helps a lot of people, it isn't for us all. I will deal with...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th July 2012, 11:50 AM
Replies: 83
Views: 33,476
Posted By sammie38
Re: How do I trust him again?

Hi both, yes Chosen, as far as I am aware (and from the emails I have read) there is no longer any flirting and he only meets with other women at work as a group, never on his own.

Thanks Raymond...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th July 2012, 09:35 AM
Replies: 83
Views: 33,476
Posted By sammie38
Re: How do I trust him again?

Hi everyone, I feel I'm only on here when something goes wrong and for that I apologise. I need some help please and I don't know what else to do. It's been over a year since I found out about my...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd May 2012, 04:52 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 33,476
Posted By sammie38
Re: How do I trust him again?

I understand what you're both saying but I really don't think he has a weakness. He said to me from the day I met him that he was cheated on when he was 16 and she broke his heart and he vowed he...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd May 2012, 08:10 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 33,476
Posted By sammie38
Re: How do I trust him again?

Hi SM, how are things with you? Nice to hear from you too.

I have just had another run in with my H and to be honest it's all driving me insane now. I mentioned in my post that there is another...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st May 2012, 04:13 PM
Replies: 83
Views: 33,476
Posted By sammie38
Re: How do I trust him again?

Thanks Chosen, I think we both do realise that it may take years for the trust to be built back up, I'm just scared of him hurting me again but as Raymond says, I can't keep on punishing him and at...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st May 2012, 09:24 AM
Replies: 83
Views: 33,476
Posted By sammie38
Re: How do I trust him again?

Thanks Raymond, I know you're right in everything you say. I think he does realise how long it takes to rebuild trust and he often says that he knows he was in the wrong and he knows that's why I'm...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st May 2012, 07:30 AM
Replies: 83
Views: 33,476
Posted By sammie38
Re: How do I trust him again?

Hi all. Well it's been over a year since I found out about my husband and his boss, do thought I'd just give you all an update and if I'm honest, I just need someone to talk to again.

It hasn't...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th August 2011, 11:56 AM
Replies: 83
Views: 33,476
Posted By sammie38
Re: How do I trust him again?

......and just when I think all is going well, something else happens to push me back down again :(

I think I mentioned previously that my H has a gambling addiction which was pretty much under...
Forum: Marriage Help 7th August 2011, 08:38 AM
Replies: 9
Views: 4,805
Posted By sammie38
Re: Help--I need my husband to fall in love with me again!!!

Hi K
Forever is right (she usually is) the trust won't come back for a long, long time, if ever I'm afraid but if you're willing to deal with that then you can begin the next step to getting your...
Forum: Marriage Help 6th August 2011, 08:09 AM
Replies: 567
Views: 118,148
Posted By sammie38
Unhappy Re: What can I do?

Morning SM

You say your wife wants to talk...what about, maybe it's about you getting back together? The fact that six months down the line you are 'no further past it' should be a good sign to...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th August 2011, 11:13 AM
Replies: 13
Views: 8,264
Posted By sammie38
Re: Paranoid or Perceptive?

Hi John

Would you really rather not know??!! Sometimes I think that when I check my husband's phone/email, but I tried 'staying ignorant' and it just made me wonder things more.

As you say,...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th August 2011, 10:45 AM
Replies: 567
Views: 118,148
Posted By sammie38
Re: What can I do?

Hi SM

It's not a silly thing, sometimes it's good to cry, your hurt and emotions need somewhere to go. You should explain to your wife why you cried, it shouldn't make her feel guilty, it only...
Forum: Marriage Help 4th August 2011, 06:59 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 9,999
Posted By sammie38
Re: Was short love affair a shake up or something more?

I too agree with Helen, if phones are left lying around and email accounts signed in then trust will return more easily.

May I ask Raymond, whether you have actually been on the receiving end...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd August 2011, 01:58 PM
Replies: 567
Views: 118,148
Posted By sammie38
Re: What can I do?

It seems like progress is being made. :o Good luck and I hope things continue to move forward positively!
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd August 2011, 01:28 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 9,999
Posted By sammie38
Smile Re: Was short love affair a shake up or something more?

Hi dopeep
I've just read your post and what happened to you is almost identical to what happened to me. I'm about three months further down the line than you, have a read of my thread and see what...
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd August 2011, 03:36 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 8,264
Posted By sammie38
Re: Paranoid or Perceptive?

Good luck, let us know how you get on. It's not easy, but you need to know.
Forum: Marriage Help 2nd August 2011, 12:29 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 8,264
Posted By sammie38
Re: Paranoid or Perceptive?

Hi John
I'm sorry to say that I don't think you're being paranoid. Why would your wife delete the texts from this man and not others which were sent/recieved around the same time? I'm not sure...
Forum: Marriage Help 31st July 2011, 09:03 AM
Replies: 83
Views: 33,476
Posted By sammie38
Re: How do I trust him again?

Just a quick update - the OW has left the company and gone back to her own country – so hopefully she’ll stay there. We’ve just been to Cornwall for a week which was lovely and just what we...
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