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Forum: Marriage Help 24th February 2009, 10:26 PM
Replies: 92
Views: 26,128
Posted By val100
Re: A broken heart

Shelia
you have so much guts and intelligence you already know what to do it is just your love and fear and emotions which make you collapse into a crying heap on the floor.
Firstly let me...
Forum: Marriage Help 24th February 2009, 09:44 PM
Replies: 92
Views: 26,128
Posted By val100
Re: A broken heart

shelia,
How are you.
well I guess it is easy for me to be here and offer advice. I have been there. I have had the same despair as you. Alot of it i brought on myself and am a lot to blame for what...
Forum: Marriage Help 24th November 2008, 09:16 AM
Replies: 56
Views: 19,394
Posted By val100
Re: Wifes best friend is a dude

textdude I don't agree with going to loveshack for advise.
On this forum you will find compassion and genuine help, there you will find a lot of harsh words no matter which side of the fence you are...
Forum: Marriage Help 9th November 2008, 05:16 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 24,441
Posted By val100
Re: Help

You have done so well, I am so proud of you.

He was shocked......Good!!!!!

Now please don't think that the light bulb goes on a quick for men as it does for us.

this could be drawn out and...
Forum: Marriage Help 6th November 2008, 10:06 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 5,781
Posted By val100
Re: Can you move on after an affair??

H and I are doing it,
it isn't always easy but it helps that we have both learnt so much from what happened.
Everyday even the bad days there is something positive coming through.

Be patient,...
Forum: Marriage Help 6th November 2008, 09:52 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 24,441
Posted By val100
Re: Help

Julz it took me a year to get tough. It is so funny that I preach this but couldn't do it myself.
I wish you luck
Forum: Marriage Help 6th November 2008, 09:47 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 24,441
Posted By val100
Re: Help

Hi Julz

Ok perspective here he is no longer acting like a man that cares for his wife or kids.
I would sadly presume he is having an affair and if he isn't he is working on it.

HOW DARE SHE...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th November 2008, 07:07 PM
Replies: 4
Views: 4,033
Posted By val100
Re: desperate after his affair

This is so abusive.
You need to put a stop to it. I know you must feel so broken by all this and your self worth all gone but he has all the power.
you truly deserve better whether you realise it...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd November 2008, 02:29 PM
Replies: 81
Views: 24,441
Posted By val100
Re: Help

Julz
STOP

take a really long deep breath and as you breath out let it all go. Slow right down.
Next step make a plan for your day, Not tomorrow or next week or next month.

You have 3 kids...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd November 2008, 01:47 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 4,403
Posted By val100
Re: Oh the difference five years makes

how the hell can that turn you on.

freakazoid:p
Forum: Marriage Help 29th October 2008, 05:23 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 13,044
Posted By val100
Re: HELP - My wife left and won't communicate!

Ok now listen

STOP!!!

you are being obsessive and this will drive her further away. She has left for a reason a reason you are not giving us.
Pastors and all the rest make me feel...
Forum: Marriage Help 28th October 2008, 05:12 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 4,403
Posted By val100
Re: Oh the difference five years makes

Hey Coffeebean,
5 years ago today I was the queen of all women, I produced my little girl this day 5 yrs ago.

You have lost yourself for the love of your man. You no longer see who you are....
Forum: Marriage Help 25th October 2008, 09:47 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 13,044
Posted By val100
Re: HELP - My wife left and won't communicate!

I want to help but I have nothing to work with sorry.

It comes across as you have done nothing and maybe you haven't . You see I really can't offer anything.
The fact that she has blocked you...
Forum: Marriage Help 25th October 2008, 09:12 PM
Replies: 392
Views: 78,774
Posted By val100
Re: Hes left what do i do now

Hey Mia best of luck it won't be easy.
It is strange there was another poster here who has got back with his wife. I will ask him to update ye as I don't feel it appropriate to say anything....
Forum: Marriage Help 25th October 2008, 09:07 PM
Replies: 7
Views: 13,044
Posted By val100
Re: HELP - My wife left and won't communicate!

Something must have happened for her to leave. Nobody just walks out without a reason.
Forum: Marriage Help 18th October 2008, 07:51 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 6,711
Posted By val100
Re: trust and honesty

Glasboy hope all is ok let us know how things are with you.

keep smiling
Forum: Marriage Help 17th October 2008, 07:00 PM
Replies: 35
Views: 16,169
Posted By val100
Re: Friend disrupting marriage

Hi,
There is a lot going on here, firstly no matter what you trust your wife so this isn't an issue of you thinking there is more going on.
He is disrespecting you.
You have every right to put...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th October 2008, 06:42 PM
Replies: 8
Views: 5,858
Posted By val100
Re: A bit of help please

Hey everyone,
thank you for your kind words.
Life is going very very well the odd bump but honestly nothing to complain about. It will take time but at least it isn't stressful between he and I.
...
Forum: Marriage Help 13th October 2008, 11:45 AM
Replies: 4
Views: 3,198
Posted By val100
Re: help

Hi,
Sorry you are going through this.
It is as likely that your wife is having an affair as it is that she isn't.

How old is she?

You have posted three times and forgive me for this but it...
Forum: Marriage Help 13th October 2008, 11:33 AM
Replies: 41
Views: 138,406
Posted By val100
Re: Do Separated couples ever get back together??

Hi numb,

Yes some couples get back together after a separation.

I was 18 months separated and am now 5 months together.
at the moment it is going fantastically well we have our moments but...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd October 2008, 05:21 PM
Replies: 13
Views: 6,711
Posted By val100
Re: trust and honesty

Hen nights and stag nights???
I have been on some really mad hen nights and have seen men flock over and I have seen women enter the banter but honestly i have never seen anybody do anything.
...
Forum: Marriage Help 3rd October 2008, 04:51 PM
Replies: 392
Views: 78,774
Posted By val100
Re: Hes left what do i do now

Just read what I wrote earlier,
ik must have been in a bad mood, I apologise
to glasboy for asking if he was dense.

i hope he just misread the post and I wish people would double check before...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th September 2008, 12:52 AM
Replies: 392
Views: 78,774
Posted By val100
Re: Hes left what do i do now

Glasboy are you the husband because only he would be that dense to say he did nothing wrong.

1. he left and moved in with another woman
2. he is taking or was taking drugs
3. He used her to get...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th September 2008, 10:25 AM
Replies: 6
Views: 3,745
Posted By val100
Re: Partner can't accept my children

Oh god , I am sorry and even more shocked. It is only for 10days next year. Oh please that is nothing.
These are your children, her kids live with you. Oh dear you are far from going crazy or...
Forum: Marriage Help 17th September 2008, 09:53 AM
Replies: 8
Views: 5,858
Posted By val100
Re: A bit of help please

Thanks Sally,

H came home last night and although not intentionally we ended up discussing all three issues and I am so impressed with him.
Wedding 1

It isn't an issue if I go I am going with...
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