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Forum: Christian Marriage 23rd December 2012, 06:34 PM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

I've been hearing lately about christian women being really awakened bedroomwise in their marriages simply through seminars on the word of God where sex was not particularly mentioned.

I find that...
Forum: Christian Marriage 15th December 2012, 11:55 AM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

To sleep in seperate rooms because of temptation? I wonder where she is getting her doctrine from. Certainly not the bible that states that we should not defraud the other in this matter (1 Cor: 7)....
Forum: Christian Marriage 13th April 2012, 08:33 AM
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Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

God seems to be doing a work in you Sasha.

Smith Wigglesworth shut his wife out all night once for going to church. In the morning she came in with a smile and asked him what he wanted for...
Forum: Christian Marriage 12th April 2012, 01:07 PM
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Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

So things are getting better Sasha?
Forum: Christian Marriage 6th February 2012, 11:58 AM
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Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

If you are praying together then there has to be hope as you are agreeing for God to help. . Couples who pray together stay together as they say.

Thanks for the update Shasha.

Raymond
Forum: Christian Marriage 21st December 2011, 02:08 PM
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Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

I would add prayer as well. Once you know your direction you can pray more specifically for a conviction to come. You are not the first with this problem. Many refusers have been awakened through...
Forum: Christian Marriage 21st December 2011, 09:54 AM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

As for 1 Cor 7 George. The context of the verses from the start is sex. Starting at verse 1 that it is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless in order to avoid fornication (sex outside...
Forum: Christian Marriage 20th December 2011, 02:23 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

Very well put Forever.

Funny enough I was reading that passage this morning in 1 Cor 7. I looked up the original greek as well which says that the wife does not have authority/power over her...
Forum: Christian Marriage 24th November 2011, 02:19 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

I won't say anything here. 1okgal and Chosen have said it all for me brilliantly.

I do know that there are thousands of christian males in this country who are having counselling and deliverance...
Forum: Christian Marriage 23rd November 2011, 02:03 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

Maybe she put the comfortable lifestyle first? It seems to be the pattern that you become a doormat if you do not stand up to adultery or affairs or even porn. Once you comply it seems to be a...
Forum: Christian Marriage 21st November 2011, 08:00 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

You've certainly burst the bag and deception about it 1okgal. Like all these things that can destroy they are packaged well and designed to entice. Thank you for the background knowledge.
Forum: Christian Marriage 21st November 2011, 11:40 AM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

Thank you for that real story 1okgal. It fits the pattern again and again. Instead of confronting she allowed herself to be a doormat and paid a very heavy price.

I am talking to a woman whose...
Forum: Christian Marriage 20th November 2011, 11:54 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

It is not just about you Been there. I've dealt with a lot of marriages which have been ruined through pornography. One just this week actually. What you are putting out about porn being alright can...
Forum: Christian Marriage 18th November 2011, 02:28 PM
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Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

I find what you say about porn very offensive. It is easy to look at porn. It's cheap instant and available but also corrupting. That you back it as a christian I find staggering. You make out there...
Forum: Christian Marriage 18th November 2011, 10:21 AM
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Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

Your posts do say otherwise Beenthere. What you say doesn't add up. I agree with what 1okgal says. I say keep your porn to yourself as what you say about it can be very damaging to marriages and...
Forum: Christian Marriage 17th November 2011, 07:36 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

Thank you 1okgal for your info. I didn't know all of that. What you said is very informative.

I am counselling a woman, not on this site, who's husband uses it blatantly with no repentance and...
Forum: Christian Marriage 17th November 2011, 09:36 AM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

I can't believe what you are saying as a christian and how you have recommended that Baroness watched porn with her husband. I think that is dangerous stuff and can break marriages instead of...
Forum: Christian Marriage 16th November 2011, 09:45 AM
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Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

I think you are on the wrong track here Beenthere. Jesus said that whoever looks on a woman to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

I'm all for adventure in the...
Forum: Christian Marriage 15th November 2011, 01:45 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

I know if I watched porn my marriage bed would certainly be defiled. It wouldn't then just be my wife it would be her and all the other images that I had in my head. I think you are on the wrong...
Forum: Christian Marriage 18th September 2011, 09:41 AM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

You are absolutely right Sasha. There is no room for this stuff in a christian marriage. Also you should not reproach yourself in any way in imagining that you came short physically or something. The...
Forum: Christian Marriage 17th September 2011, 12:51 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

Sasha this is one wife's situation who is preparing to confront her husband about the dreadful porn he is into.

Ah, what a night! I am still at work doing my planning and preparing in private for...
Forum: Christian Marriage 17th September 2011, 09:35 AM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

I think your problems are quite different Sasha. Your husband is blatantly doing pornography which is far more serious in my mind. Of course you are both looking to God which is right and...
Forum: Christian Marriage 5th September 2011, 04:32 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

I am so glad you came back Sasha. It would have been a tragedy if you departed because you felt some condemnation coming across on here. We are not here for that. If there is any straight talk it...
Forum: Christian Marriage 4th September 2011, 09:49 PM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

Sasha the best advice I can give is what you have said yourself in your last post. I am sure you can sift what is for you and what you can reject of the advice you have been given on this thread. I...
Forum: Christian Marriage 3rd September 2011, 11:06 AM
Replies: 202
Views: 246,108
Posted By Raymond
Re: Married and lonely

I can't think that Sasha's husband is just looking at some magazines as bad as that would be. I would bet that it is computer porn. Could also be dvd.

Yes we should be able to look at the female...
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