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Forum: Christian Marriage 16th December 2012, 07:30 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely That would be her decision and not his. I would suggest that he go and speak to his pastor about this.

Forum: Christian Marriage 16th December 2012, 07:03 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely The only thing that may work would be to make it clear how unhappy he is, and that if she isnt prepared to get help, he will seperate from her.

Forum: Christian Marriage 16th December 2012, 04:37 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely IT depends on whether he wants to accept this for the rest of his life or not. He may need to make a stand.

Forum: Christian Marriage 15th December 2012, 09:01 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely I am not suggesting that she is forced, as that helps no one, but if he insisted that if the marriage is to carry on they both have to go to counselling, then who knows? What she is doing is as bad...

Forum: Christian Marriage 15th December 2012, 07:05 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely George you said "I still am putting my faith in God and the Holy Spirit regarding this, but as nothing has been happening, for now I have to conclude that's the way it is supposed to be for us." ...

Forum: Christian Marriage 11th April 2012, 11:10 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely Shasha Thats fantastic news. Its lovely to hear that a marriage hgas been saved and that things are improving. They say that a marriage needs to be a three strand rope, the husband, the wife and...

Forum: Christian Marriage 21st December 2011, 03:36 AM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely As forever says,(the same as I thought when I read your last post), the reasons that she gives are all just excuses. In her mind there will always be a reason not to have sex. If you had a weekend...

Forum: Christian Marriage 20th December 2011, 07:46 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely george I have a great book called 'Intimaty ignited' by joseph and Linda Dillow and Dr Peter and Lorraine Pintus. Its basically a Christian book on sex in marriage going through the Song of Soloman...

Forum: Christian Marriage 19th December 2011, 07:30 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely Its normal to have sexual desire George. Its normal for a husband and wife to enjoy each other in bed, and frequently. Its nothing to do with being a Christian because God invented sex for marriage,...

Forum: Christian Marriage 19th December 2011, 05:06 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely george. goodness your wife sounds incredibly sexually repressed. God made sex for our enjoyment within marriage and it should be a time of great loving and giving and enjoyment for both spouses. Did...

Forum: Christian Marriage 24th November 2011, 09:53 AM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely It depends on how 'accomodating' that we should be with a spouse. I am happy to do most things with my husband but if he were to ask for something that wasnt right, such as porn, then I would say no....

Forum: Christian Marriage 23rd November 2011, 09:13 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely So should we sin to accomodate our husbands 'needs'? Even if they are also sinning? I cant see that is what God wants for us, to have images/films of naked people doing sexual acts in our bedrooms....

Forum: Christian Marriage 23rd November 2011, 06:50 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely I would far rather loose a lavish lifesytle that loose my self respect, especially because wealth isnt important to me. The only reason that I would want lots of money is so that I can give lots of...

Forum: Christian Marriage 23rd November 2011, 01:27 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely yes Raymond I agree.Some things are far far more important than a luxury life style though arent they. This verse comes to mind << Proverbs 17 >> Better is a dry morsel and quietness...

Forum: Christian Marriage 22nd November 2011, 11:59 AM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely I have no idea why your sister in law stays and put up with it. She must feel totally crushed and humiliated. I will never understand how women can love or stay with men who treat them in such a...

Forum: Christian Marriage 21st November 2011, 07:30 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely My mother too Iaokgal. My dad looked at porn(magazines then) for years. I found his pile of mags when I was only about 10 or 11, and he went onto have affairs and eventually my mother got severely...

Forum: Christian Marriage 21st November 2011, 07:21 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely I have just read the last few posts, and I am absolutely amazed and appalled that a believer thinks that porn use is OK and that God would approve. Jesus clearly says that any man who looks at...

Forum: Christian Marriage 6th September 2011, 06:28 AM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely yes if they have close relatives. Sadly I didnt, as both of my parents died quite young(one in 50's and one in 60's). They would have helped me if they had been around.

Forum: Christian Marriage 5th September 2011, 10:56 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely Here the child support agency works out how much the absent parent pays going by their income and how many children there are. Some couples agree between themsleves but the husband can expect to pay...

Forum: Christian Marriage 5th September 2011, 09:17 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely Forever that what I thought. A policemans pay is pretty good compared to many others. I would have thought that a figure of about $500 a month for each child was reasonable.My ex husband earnt far...

Forum: Christian Marriage 5th September 2011, 07:35 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely I know of many cases where maintenance was paid by the husband for the mother (as well as the children) while they were fairly young. I never said that it would be paid till they were 18. Helen is...

Forum: Christian Marriage 5th September 2011, 05:58 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely Totally agree with you Raymond. The mother does an equally important a job as the husband whether she works part time, full time, or as a full time mother. Women arent afriad to get a full time job,...

Forum: Christian Marriage 5th September 2011, 01:14 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely Shasha As others have said lean on God and trust Him. The verse that cames to my mind is the one from proverbs 3v5-7 lean on, trust in and be confident in the Lord with all your heart and mind,...

Forum: Christian Marriage 4th September 2011, 02:05 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely shasha Thast sad about the way your husband was introduced to porn, and thats how many men start. My dad used to have a pile of these evil porngraphic magazines in his wardrobe.I do feel for you it...

Forum: Christian Marriage 3rd September 2011, 08:43 PM

Replies: 202 Married and lonely Views: 252,799 Posted By chosen Re: Married and lonely I think you will find that that you actually initiated all of this by implying that if Sashas husband was 'only' looking at porn mags, then it didnt really matter much, when it matters a lot to wives...

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