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Forum: Marriage Help 15th December 2016, 06:31 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... As you say Chosen she should have told him and it might have changed things. Then again you would not have married him. My wife was passionately in love with me to the point of not eating...

Forum: Marriage Help 7th November 2016, 09:30 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... Glad it has worked out for you Robin though probably not for your ex husband. It reminds me of my situation. When I was looking for a wife I fell in love with a girl instantly when I saw her. When...

Forum: Marriage Help 26th January 2014, 09:53 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... Yes it is always worth it Chosen. You went through a very hard time but didn't lose faith and even your daughter noticed it. I've been on a bed of Roses compared to you but the first part of my life...

Forum: Marriage Help 26th January 2014, 10:15 AM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... Not having the strength to start over and deciding not to start over are two different things. With a decisision will come God's strength if you want it and those who want love must show themselves...

Forum: Marriage Help 25th January 2014, 10:14 AM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... I think I agree. You have analised the past over and over. You are where you are now and need to look forward. Whatever she has done wrong in the past in your eyes she now wants to work on the...

Forum: Marriage Help 24th January 2014, 08:43 AM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... When it says husbands love your wives the word used is Agape in the greek which is God's love as opposed to Philio sexual or romantic love. Of course there should be plenty of Philio in a marriage...

Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 06:28 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... It is true that we have to choose what is right and wrong. That is up to us I suppose. Christianity has never been a legal thing or shouldn't be. Nevertheless most of the word is pretty obvious.

Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 01:22 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... Funny the divorce rate in arranged marriages seems to be only 4%. I suppose if you didn't love the person you was arranged with you just had to learn to. That was part of how it worked I suppose.

Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 01:16 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... Thank you Chosen. There is a big difference in an arranged marriage and a forced marriage. You are saying Magneto that you felt forced into it by peer pressure? It was still your decision as far...

Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 12:57 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... Arranged marriages used to be quite the norm in nearly every country in the world at one time but divorce was still divorce. Even in Britain during the victorian era and back it existed. I suppose...

Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 12:44 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... Okay. I just thought that your thoughts on lust in the heart being adultery had something to do with it. Jesus was saying they commit adultery in the heart alhough doing it for real would be...

Forum: Marriage Help 22nd January 2014, 07:51 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... I always view porn as a kind of mental adultery which can reach the stage of being practically adultery as it is a diversion of the sexual drive, but of course it is not actual adultery even though...

Forum: Marriage Help 19th January 2014, 03:03 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... I think one needs wisdom as well. A wife cannot treat a murderer in the same way as a husband. I think a woman or man can marry after desertion personally. It touches on this when it says if an...

Forum: Marriage Help 18th January 2014, 06:04 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... I think your problems Magneto are kind of normal for people with marriage problems. Some of that is in every marriage. People are different. I find it doesn't really matter so long as the love is...

Forum: Marriage Help 18th January 2014, 11:03 AM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... I personally wouldn't want you to place blame Magneto. That is commendable as it is so easy to come on here and blame ones spouse for all of one's woes when they don't have a chance to balance it up....

Forum: Marriage Help 17th January 2014, 06:39 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... I can't really make a judgment but I agree that speaking in tongues in the church does put people off and me in fact unless there is an interpretation of what is being said. I don't know about the...

Forum: Marriage Help 17th January 2014, 12:47 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... That was my inkling not Rose's Magneto. Do you not agree with that? I suspect she is trying to save the marriage as she thinks it is the right thing to do. You are against her faith and against...

Forum: Marriage Help 16th January 2014, 06:31 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... That is true. We don't really grow in isolatation. We need interaction but time alone as well I think.

Forum: Marriage Help 16th January 2014, 12:50 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... I think you are a born encourager Roses.

Forum: Marriage Help 16th January 2014, 12:48 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... We are all different. I suppose I am the quieter type. Funny how you can notice that on here. Magneto if there is a view on anything in our marriage then we will see things differently. That can...

Forum: Marriage Help 15th January 2014, 07:52 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... Hi Roses. Hope you enjoyed your break. I can see the truth in your sentiments. Magneto you seem to be set to leave no matter what. I think there are obviously problem in the marriage but I for...

Forum: Marriage Help 14th January 2014, 08:55 AM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... If you really want to marry her knowing all the things you know then I cannot see a problem. If you still have serious doubts then wait but as I said it is still a leap of faith from singleness to...

Forum: Marriage Help 13th January 2014, 07:08 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... Everybody has faults Hobson. Without exception. It really depends what the faults are. If they recognise them and are trying to change all well and good. There are certain things one can take and...

Forum: Marriage Help 13th January 2014, 05:35 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... What reasons does she give for having the desire to leave you although she is afraid not to be married? Sounds like a desperate woman to me. There's something missing here.

Forum: Marriage Help 13th January 2014, 04:09 PM

Replies: 332 I don't love my wife and never have... Views: 416,481 Posted By Raymond Re: I don't love my wife and never have... You believe she is more concerned about not being married than the concern of not being with you? Do you believe this is her motive for marriage counseling? You need to get that right. If you are...

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