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Forum: Marriage Help 27th November 2015, 10:55 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 7,765
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Lost faith in it all

Hello Chosen :) I rememeber you too and thanks again.

this particular man was a commitment-phobic. Loved the chase, got terrified in the relationship and then sabotaged it. It has been oh so...
Forum: Marriage Help 27th November 2015, 08:17 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 21,548
Posted By verysadlady
Re: For the broken hearted, 1 Corinthians 13.

It was lovely reading this conversation, I am so sorry for all those with broken hearts. It warmed me though to read your words...a reminder that there ARE men out there who truly love their wives...
Forum: Marriage Help 27th November 2015, 07:11 PM
Replies: 5
Views: 7,765
Posted By verysadlady
Lost faith in it all

First of all, I wanted to thank everyone here for helping me in 2014 with my situation back then. I am sure no one remembers, but my engagement (not a marriage but one for all intents) broke up and...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st May 2014, 04:29 PM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

Yes, deep down I do still hope for that. Although in my heart of hearts I realise it has gone too far for there to be a way back to what we had so I know I am wasting my time
Forum: Marriage Help 1st May 2014, 02:46 PM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

Do you think that's why I feel in limbo? Like everything is just frozen?
Forum: Marriage Help 30th April 2014, 10:19 PM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

Thank you both of you. I know it will make me feel better. I can't understand why I am resistant. I just feel tired and empty.

I am coping though...I run every morning and that helps.

Love...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th April 2014, 07:41 PM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

Thanks Chosen. I know I am supposed to move on and grieve. It just doesn't feel right.

I hear about him because we have all the same friends. I know his movements pretty well. He;s not even...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th April 2014, 06:50 PM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

Hello all.

I am sorry to say that about a week after my last post my ex partner had another turnaround and told me he didn't love me, didn't want to work on things and just wnated to focus on his...
Forum: Marriage Help 6th March 2014, 01:23 PM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

:):):):):):):):):):):):)

Thank you Chosen and Raymond. I am surrendering here. I don't know the right choice and am just keeping faith that it will be shown to me in time.
Forum: Marriage Help 6th March 2014, 11:19 AM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

Thanks Ronnoco. I am still pretty sad! :)

I think he will become free, and I think he will become better than HE ever imagined. He's embracing the therapy. After a lifetime of certain...
Forum: Marriage Help 6th March 2014, 10:32 AM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

I thought I would take a few minutes to update you all seeing as you were so helpful to me before.

I am now staying with my depressed ex fiance, I came here apartment hunting and for a few work...
Forum: Marriage Help 6th February 2014, 03:33 PM
Replies: 92
Views: 38,610
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Inability to speak how I feel to my wife

Hi Andrew

I'm not remotely able to comment on the other complexities of this situation or your wife's past, but I can speak from the perspective of a person who had been at the receiving end of a...
Forum: Marriage Help 6th February 2014, 01:35 PM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

I agree with that too Raymond. It is usually more of a gradual process...growing up? Getting to now yourself and adjusting as you go along the way?

For me this was why my 20s were difficult. I...
Forum: Marriage Help 6th February 2014, 11:33 AM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

Thank you Roses.

I am absolutely sure he will apologise to all of us when he is a little better. I know it's hard to understand, but I know him very well and can see he is standing on ice...
Forum: Marriage Help 6th February 2014, 09:42 AM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

Yes, Mr Nice Guy is a book about men with no boundaries. I read it and some of it really hit home. It's about how they develop this persona in childhood and how it causes them to have seething...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th February 2014, 11:00 PM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

I am taking a new attitude though and am trying to take care of myself and have separated myself from him in the sense I no longer consider us a "couple" which has been a relief because it takes all...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th February 2014, 10:57 PM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

Yes I know Raymond. i bought that book "Mr Nice Guy". Read it and will give it to him when he's better. Right now he finds even thinking about that sort of stuff really frightening, although...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th February 2014, 11:12 AM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

His school friends still bully him when they visit. He lets a lot of them get away with being quite belittling although you can see it upsets him.
Forum: Marriage Help 5th February 2014, 11:10 AM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

Yes, he was bullied at school.

I think he found his identity as being "Mr Nice Guy" and it made people like him. He loves thi image of himself.

His Mum told me he was a very angry...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th February 2014, 10:46 AM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

Hi Raymond. I agree with you, but at the time I thought he was just gentle natured. I do see with hindsight that "not doing anger" is strange. No he never confronted his wife or her lover. He most...
Forum: Marriage Help 5th February 2014, 07:29 AM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

Oh I'm laughing. I don't think we'll be needing a spell caster there Bradley!
Forum: Marriage Help 4th February 2014, 10:28 PM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

I agree Chosen.

He also saw divorce as a failure. I have heard from friends a lot of people feel this way.
Forum: Marriage Help 4th February 2014, 09:30 PM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

So you can see, I did try and see a lot of these things, but he was always so convincing! I don't think he was lying....he was just to aware himself that he needed time alone. I think he just...
Forum: Marriage Help 4th February 2014, 09:29 PM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

And this was the reply I got. So funny that I have all these letters! Shows how much that didn't work out as it was meant to :(

"
OK,

Read your message a third time now and here's what I...
Forum: Marriage Help 4th February 2014, 09:20 PM
Replies: 184
Views: 82,712
Posted By verysadlady
Re: Please help. My life has been turned upside down

So this is what I sent all those years ago Chosen, funnily saying exactly that:

For whatever you say, I just donīt believe that you have come close to grieving for the loss you are experiencing...
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