Site Areas
Wedding Centre
Health Club
Marriage Clinic
Chapel
University
Citizen's Centre
Coffee Shop
Admin Centre

Contents
Articles
Books
CDs / Videos
Tips
Services

Resources
Forums
Membership
Contact Us
Site map
Link to Us

Search

Take the Couple Check-up!

Marriage Week UK

Marriage first aid

Online support for your marriage

Free Tell A Friend from Bravenet


Home > Forums
2-in-2-1 Discussion Forums  

Go Back   2-in-2-1 Discussion Forums > Search Forums

Showing results 1 to 25 of 81
Search took 0.01 seconds.
Search: Posts Made By: chosen
Forum: Marriage Help 18th April 2019, 01:30 AM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Forum: Marriage Help 17th December 2016, 10:44 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

Yes I am very grateful that he married an English lady which led to him moving over here.
Forum: Marriage Help 14th December 2016, 02:35 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

Good news robin, I am glad you found true love.

raymond, I think you wife was very patient, I would have made it very clear to you way before the 2 years was up if I was interested. More like 2...
Forum: Marriage Help 26th January 2014, 11:41 AM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

You are so right Raymond about God giving us the strength to do things that on our own we would probably be unable to do. I look back on my life and often wonder how I got though some of the terrible...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 09:58 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

As Raymond says some things are really pretty easy to understand. One is that divorce is very very serious and never to be undertaken except in the most serious of circumstances.
I studied divorce...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 07:51 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

NO but in my life its has been proved time and time again that God always knows best. We go against his guidance and instruction at our peril. There are always consequences to our actions for good or...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 07:49 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

Yet again you are going by what some priests will or wont do, and not by what the Bible says. I do know pastors who wouldn't marry all those who have been divorced. Never go by what others say but...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 05:41 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

However I believe that your wife doesn't want a divorce?

My husband believes that marriage is for life, and that is what he lives out.
He doesn't believe that you can end a marriage just because...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 04:18 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

MY husband married his first wife because he thought at the time that she was the one God wanted for him and because he wanted to get married and wasn't very good with women generally so had had few...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 03:59 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

Cant think of any examples, but definitely not in anything important no. Definitely not to marry. Its far too important to do just to please someone else.
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 03:57 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

Jesus himself says that there are grounds for divorce in the gospels so they are wrong.
If lusting was grounds for divorce then most people would have grounds. I suspect that if you actually asked...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 02:42 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

Well if anyone had tried to force me into a marriage I would have resisted. We all have free will.
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 02:39 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

I have never heard anyone who thinks its the same, other wise every time we look at an attractive person for more than 3 seconds our spouse could divorce us. Just because one weird pastor may think...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 02:09 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

No I have never known or seen this in 40 years as a Christian.
On the contrary all the young people I know chose their own spouses, and actually I have known very few believers who met their...
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 02:07 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

Yes it did, and Mary and Josephs marriage was almost certainly arranged by their parents.
Forum: Marriage Help 23rd January 2014, 12:09 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

Well God never said that did he. He gives the reasons where divorce is allowed as opposed to separation. I have never heard of any Christian arranged marriages, but I would like to ask why the...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd January 2014, 07:36 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

Yes, and some believe that long term unrepentant porn use is a reason to end a marriage, but its still not adultery. I think you are looking for loopholes to end your marriage.
There is no...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd January 2014, 03:54 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

We can do our own searching in the Bible and on the internet if we have questions. There are so many amazing Christian teachers now both on TV and on cd's. I have never been one to accept whatever I...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd January 2014, 03:49 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

I think that we all know that going to strip clubs is wrong surely?How is that going to help anyone not to lust?
However when Jesus says that sexual immorality is grounds for divorce he means the...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th January 2014, 07:34 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

When it comes to divorce it clearly means sexual immorality as in we commit sexual immorality with another person. Or are you saying that there is no difference between killing someone and merely...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th January 2014, 05:03 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

Lusting is adultery of the heart, not physical adultery. I agree with Raymond that if one spouse abandons the other, which includes divorcing them against their will when they havent sinned,(as in my...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th January 2014, 04:56 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

Well you would either be put to death or in prison for the rest of your life, and then you have effectively abandoned her through your own actions. Then she would be able to end the marriage. If you...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th January 2014, 04:54 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

[QUOTE=magneto;77959]

The word Jesus uses is 'pornea', which means sexual immorality. Its where the word porn comes from. Its used in the bible to mean different types of sexual sin and not just...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th January 2014, 02:38 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

I would have to divorce if the same circumstances arose because of the reasons for it. I had been married for 23 years when I found out quite by chance, that my ex had been doing some terrible things...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th January 2014, 02:26 PM
Replies: 332
Views: 407,547
Posted By chosen
Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

Yes thats very true, and that's what happened to my husband with his own mother. Their marriage was very unhappy and he became her 'surrogate' husband and its very unhealthy and dysfunctional. I made...
Showing results 1 to 25 of 81

 
Forum Jump

All times are GMT +1. The time now is 08:14 PM.


Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.


Top

Copyright ©1999-2024 2-in-2-1 Limited. All rights reserved. Disclaimer