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Forum: Marriage Help 7th August 2011, 12:40 PM
Replies: 383
Views: 83,784
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: Really need some advice this is bad

I'm not sure about your take on this hb.

I've heard others refer to the i love you/not in love with you phrase many times.

I always understood if to mean that they love their other half in a...
Forum: Marriage Help 7th August 2011, 12:54 AM
Replies: 383
Views: 83,784
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: Really need some advice this is bad

hello hb

sometimes we want someone more when we feel that we can't have them.

When this happened to me and my h, I don't remember feeling attracted to him during the time we were at odds. It...
Forum: Marriage Help 7th August 2011, 12:25 AM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,681
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

hello chosen

Luckily i don't see her often. My sister has probably mentioned something at work and may be there's been a bit of gossip. My sister supported me a lot earlier in the year, and was...
Forum: Marriage Help 6th August 2011, 09:48 PM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,681
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

hello

I know her because she works with my sister from time to time, i don't see her regularly thank goodness.

When she said that i'd married a cheating **** it really upset me. I instantly...
Forum: Marriage Help 6th August 2011, 03:22 PM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,681
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

hello eveyone

Things are going pretty well.

however, there's someone who's bombarding me with her take on things. I haven't asked her for advice and haven't confided in her, she's got to know...
Forum: Marriage Help 29th July 2011, 09:47 PM
Replies: 383
Views: 83,784
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: Really need some advice this is bad

The question is who of the two of you are the children going to be living with.

If, as you suggested earlier, one of the children remains with you then it's equal in terms of a decision as to who...
Forum: Marriage Help 26th July 2011, 09:26 AM
Replies: 29
Views: 9,001
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: Help needed re friend

hello everyone

i've been reading this discussion, and many valid points have been put forward. In my opinion i don't see that there's one hard and fast approach to this.

However, I know from...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd July 2011, 09:55 PM
Replies: 383
Views: 83,784
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: Really need some advice this is bad

hello hb

try to resist the temptation to contact your w. I know this is hard, I remember that at first I gave in to that temptation and would contact my H a lot. However, after a week or so, I...
Forum: Marriage Help 22nd July 2011, 09:26 PM
Replies: 383
Views: 83,784
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: Really need some advice this is bad

hello hb

i've just read your last post, and can sense the hurt you feel. I can also see how your mind is going round and round in circles, which is natural (i was exactly the same a few months...
Forum: Marriage Help 20th July 2011, 09:52 AM
Replies: 23
Views: 10,078
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: Was short love affair a shake up or something more?

hello dopeep

I really can't see how you're not going to be having doubts and looking over your shoulder. Such betrayal hits a very tender spot and it takes an awful lot of energy, emotion and time...
Forum: Marriage Help 19th July 2011, 02:33 PM
Replies: 23
Views: 10,078
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: Was short love affair a shake up or something more?

hello dopeep

i've just read your post and fully understand how you're feeling.

I doubt very much that your w was flirting and meeting with someone solely in order to get some kind of reaction...
Forum: Marriage Help 15th July 2011, 12:27 PM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,681
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

Hello everyone

update

I have been able to share the most dreadful things with you over the last few months. Something really lovely has happened and I wanted to share that with you too..

it...
Forum: Marriage Help 13th July 2011, 09:22 PM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,681
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

dear chosen

yes, i expected that others are the same as I am. I have begun to think that I have had a sheltered childhood in some way. I was brought up by my mother, who was and is of straight...
Forum: Marriage Help 13th July 2011, 07:48 PM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,681
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

dear chosen

yes, that's exactly what i thought. I do try to think of things from the point of view of others, to put myself in their shoes. However, I do think that she was particularly brass...
Forum: Marriage Help 13th July 2011, 02:16 PM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,681
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

hello everyone

I have explained to my H the reason(s) why my son feels the way he does. At first my H was still in his hot head mode, and didn't appear to take notice. He was different again...
Forum: Marriage Help 12th July 2011, 10:18 AM
Replies: 383
Views: 83,784
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: Really need some advice this is bad

Hello hb

I have just read through your thread.

I know that feeling that you talk about, when you sense that there's more to this than your w/h is letting on.

I don't want to upset you...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th July 2011, 06:47 PM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,681
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

chosen, to my mind my boy is still very young. I too, and my H aswell I would imagine behaved in this way to some degree when he was younger. To my mind it's part of growing up - i guess that most...
Forum: Marriage Help 10th July 2011, 10:06 AM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,681
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

Hello everyone

A little advice would be most appreciated.

My H is now back with us at home. Things are going along pretty well; I didn't expect everything to fall back in to place straight...
Forum: Marriage Help 21st June 2011, 09:18 PM
Replies: 10
Views: 7,397
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: Why does my husband hurt me?

Yes, I agree. It sounds like the lady is feeling very insecure, threatened and hurt by the situation, all totally understandable. Her H's is behaviour isn't on at all.

I too felt that I...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st June 2011, 10:27 PM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,681
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

Hello everyone

update

I've been reading a little about the aftermath of an affair, and it seems that my H and I are going through the 'honeymoon phase'. It is rather good, I must say...and I...
Forum: Marriage Help 1st June 2011, 08:47 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 18,978
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: How should I proceed?

Dear MAW

I think you're right. I would want all association with the OW to be erased. Unfortunately, as I am finding, there are reminders of the relationship your H and the OW had. In my case,...
Forum: Marriage Help 30th May 2011, 07:55 PM
Replies: 49
Views: 18,978
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: How should I proceed?

Dear MAW

I've just read your thread. I know exactly how you're feeling, it is unbelievably hard, and so very painful. I'm thinking about you x
Forum: Marriage Help 28th May 2011, 07:56 PM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,681
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

Hello everyone

update

things seem to be going pretty well.

However, i'm finding that i'm going over things; I 're-live' some of the things my H said and did, I re-visit his hatefulness and...
Forum: Marriage Help 24th May 2011, 12:00 PM
Replies: 567
Views: 119,176
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: What can I do?

SM

I don't know what to say, other than I am thinking about you a lot.

I do hope that your wife is able to forgive and move on. You are trying hard to put things right, i can see that. May...
Forum: Marriage Help 24th May 2011, 11:53 AM
Replies: 261
Views: 60,681
Posted By 1heartbrokenlady
Re: help needed- i'm heartbroken

Raymond and chosen

I told the OW the consequences of their cheating, I also told her that my H has been struggling because of the way he's felt about himself in hurting me so badly and unsettling...
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