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Old 3rd May 2013, 02:08 PM   #238
freddie
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Re: How to see our married life through my wife's eyes

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If you have already told his parents then they will have probably told him.I am wondering what is in it for him if he knows that she wont move to where he lives and he isnt prepared to move to where you live. There seems to be no fututre in it at all and yet they still carry on.
Have you ever asked her how she will pay for the divorce and how she will manage financially when you stop paying all the bills?
Not yet, we are still not talking enough to discuss this, especially if she takes it as "If I go away you will be in financial trouble"

I know, I think and think why they continue to talk (they do not even meet) if they already know that one is a liar and the other has no morals plus the practical problems with the distance.
If my wife and I establish some real communication, I will ask her these things and to end the relationship of her own accord and go ahead with the divorce if she wishes.
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