[Raymond]

I don't see why a wife has to be into sports. That seems to be part of the reason you have against your wife. My wife is not particularly into sports although I am. She will swim once a week and we walk a lot. Keeping weight down is also about what you eat. That should never be a reason to end a marriage though. What happened to your initial love affair. What was that worth if you just move on like this?

My wife also has not contributed financially to the purchase of our house but she has contributed much more in bringing up children and in being a good wife in every respect.

I think you just need to work on your marriage and not just go with someone who is willing to take another woman's husband. I think you are being very hard nosed here.