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Old 18th May 2006, 04:28 PM   #12
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Re: My husband had an affair and got another woman pregnant?

brandy - I agree with Helen. Thsi man is not worth a single minute more of your time or affections. Concentrate on having this baby of yours and leave the selish gimp. The fact that he can have so many affairs, have a child in a foreign country and abandon the OW and deliberately trap you by asking you to have another child is nothing more than a power trip for him. He knew what he was doing. He knew you might leave if you found out about his affairs - so what does he do? He MANIPULATED you into having his baby - therby trapping you and forcing you to stay. The man ABUSED you so long ago and when he saw you didn't leave then, he knew he had you.

You now have the option of either being a victim to him again or empowering yourself and telling him you DON'T need him anymore. He may not want to leave, but that doesn't mean you can't pack up and get the heck out.

Good luck and here's a big hug!
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