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Old 11th January 2012, 02:12 PM   #20
chosen
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Re: Should I say yes?

I must say that when I became single again after my divorce, I wasnt prepared to consider a much older man, but we are all different. The looks though, we do need to like the way our spouse looks. We will be looking at them for the rest of our lives. We will be having sex with them. If we arent attracted to them, that will make things very hard. They dont need to be the most attractive people in the world, but they do need to be attractive to us.
If I were you I would just tell him that at this time you cannot agree to marry him, but that you would need to get to know him properly. If you feel that you could never find him attractive in that way, then you need to let him go.
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