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Old 30th November 2014, 10:55 PM   #5
Cpjunk31
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Re: Leave or stay? Been wrestling for a while now...

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IF you choose to leave your marriage, children and wife, then you will loose a lot. Why should your wife loose her home and why should the children loose their home just because you cant be faithful? When you marry everything belongs to both of you. Its not 'yours' or 'mine' but 'ours', and if the woman is at home caring for the children, why should she loose out if you decide to leave her for another lady? You are wanting to commit this terrible betrayal of your wife and children but not loose anything over it, it doesnt work like that. Are you honestly thinking you can chuck your wife out and shortly after move your lover in?
Sorry but as far as this affair goes you ARE the bad person, along with the OW. YOU are the one who has been unfaithful and gone after another lady. It wasnt even her who went after you, it was you who went after her. You made promises not so long ago and you have already broken them.

Please reconsider, you will regret it if you go.
I understand your point, do not think that I don't...

But the same can be asked on the flip side...I don't want to leave my children, they are the reason I am still here... Affair or not... Why should I lose out if I want to move on?

I have no intentions of moving the OW in, but I do want to see what is happens with the OW...

Essentially you say that nobody has a right to move on if you decide to get married?
If there is no affair am I still wrong for wanting to leave?
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