Originally Posted by chosen

Yes but only married for 6 and thats when you made those promises.
If you leave the marriage for the OW you will be rejecting the children for her. You may well end up just seeing them some weekends. You are rejecting your whole family for her. You cant have her and what you have now, it just doesnt work that way. Cant you see that what you have with the OW isnt real life? The grass isnt greener and many have discovered that far too late when the damage has been done.
Does your wife know that you are still cheating on her?