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Originally Posted by chosen
Its not YOU doing HER dirty work, but YOU doing what is right for YOU. Even if its freshening the house up a bit and changing a few things and maybe buying a few new things that you like to make it yours again. If having her stuff there doesnt bother you, then why are you so resistant to let it go? IF you dont want to touch it yourself then ask her to come and get it. Name a day and you can even go out and leave her too it if you like and come back a while later. Its all part of the acceptance process.
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"If having her stuff there doesnt bother you, then why are you so resistant to let it go?"
Simple, it's not for me to do that's her job, and if she cant be bothered to arrange to get it then I cant be bothered either doing it for her or chasing her up to do it herself, and I don't think me leaving her in the house on her own with my private effects would be the greatest of ideas for a separated couple.