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Old 30th October 2015, 11:39 AM   #2036
chosen
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Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

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Originally Posted by ralfgarnett View Post
"If having her stuff there doesnt bother you, then why are you so resistant to let it go?"

Simple, it's not for me to do that's her job, and if she cant be bothered to arrange to get it then I cant be bothered either doing it for her or chasing her up to do it herself, and I don't think me leaving her in the house on her own with my private effects would be the greatest of ideas for a separated couple.
YOU need do nothing, you simply tell her that she needs to collect it and arrange a day. If she doesnt want it, then the charity shops would be very grateful I am sure.
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