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Old 28th September 2017, 03:11 PM   #10
Raymond
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Re: Is She Still Cheating?

If the marriage is to survive there obviously needs to be more honesty. I think it is reasonable for spouses to put the other's mind at rest if they suspect that something is going on. If you are not happy I would suggest you tell her that and that you need to know things are clear. If she is honest she will go out of her way to show you nothing is going on, even letting you see her phone and not keep hiding it.

On the other hand if you want proof of her unfaithfulness ie that the trust thing is not going to work I, then I would suggest you drop the subject and give her more rope. Eventually she will slip up if she believes she is safe and you don't suspect. This may take time. You would need to make her feel safe and you do not suspect anything but at the same time keeping your antenna up. Only you will know what is the best route to go.
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