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Old 18th April 2014, 08:29 AM   #12
Raymond
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Re: 20 years Trapped

Having thought about this a little more Freddo part of the problem will be the control your husband excercises'. Controlling another person is never a good thing. You must learn to resist that whilst loving him at the same time. Control should never be a part of the marriage pact. It is a dangerous thing in the long run.

The word ought can also be a terrible word and can bring so much wrong pressure. The aim is love from the heart from freewill, but it can never be freewill until you deal with the ought which can bring resentment in the long term.
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