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Old 5th September 2010, 11:28 PM   #3
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Re: Back again 1 year on starting to feel it all again

Hi sean1234

I don't know of your story or situation, nor have I read your previous thread but I did want to post something just on the basis of what you have written above.

I think your post describes a whole wealth of feelings for your wife that you haven't allowed yourself enough time to deal with and get through. Quite possibly because it seems they are too painful for you. However mostly I feel that you are being very unfair to the new lady in your life. It seems obvious to me that you don't reciprocate her feelings to the same degree as she does. I don't think that is fair as I can foresee she will at some point be hurt and this is un-necessary.

I think you need to concentrate completely on you and this will take a lot of time and energy and exploration. Until you are feeling much more complete as a person I don't think it a good idea to share 'you' with anyone else.

Upanddown gives good advice re the book. I am quite certain you will be able to do this.

Sending lots of support and love x
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