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Old 17th October 2015, 08:59 AM   #1965
ralfgarnett
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Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

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I guess that I wouldnt have let it go this long. I would have set a date and time to meet and asked her to be there, or asked her outright what her plans were long ago. I wouldnt let anyone mess me around like this. My question would be, are you coming back or not and if the answer was no I would close the door on it all.
I think the issue got fudged early on as we agreed to remain on good terms and we were meeting up regularly and getting on very well as we always did, then she obviously changed her mind somewhere along to line but didn't have the guts or the heart to tell me, and I think that is where the situation started to become blurred.
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