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Old 9th August 2004, 01:02 AM   #14
jennyj
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Re: masturbation, porn and marriage

He may just have an addiction to these things? maybe it is nothing for you to worry about? though I must say, alarm bells are ringing here!

I would be devasted if my husband had to use this method of satisfaction. Of course men look at lovely women and women look at dishy guys too, its natural.

He does seem to go quite far with his masturbation issues though???mmm addicted to it perhaps??? Then again at least he is open and honest about it all, better finding out now than he hide it all and you find out later on when you marry and he has kept it secret from you.

If you find it very uncomfortable to live with now, I dont think there will be much chnage in the future. I cant see his fascination with it dying down to staisfy yu. But I wouldn't know maybe a man can throw his experience of it in here? we will be able to understand better then. We think You may feel second best in a relationship like this. If it was me I'd feel a right failure! Be strong tell him how you feel. If it still revolts you, maybe you should seek advice about guys that do this in their every day lives or find someone else. Ooooooooops harsh words sorry.
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