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Old 17th April 2014, 01:04 PM   #3
Raymond
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Re: Wife is confused

I agree with Chosen. This is adultery for goodness sake. I think you should put your foot down and give her stark choices. Either him or you. I don't think it is helping to accomodate her in this. In a way you might be enabling it because of your weakness. I think you have to be cruel to be kind in this situation. Please take some control. If you get a chance speak to him confront him. He has got a cheek flirting with your wife. A right anger will better serve you in this situation. Her choosing you must include cutting off from him completely with no contact whatsoever. Don't give her halfway options. That will lead to confusion.

Last edited by Raymond; 17th April 2014 at 05:57 PM.
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