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Old 20th October 2015, 08:06 PM   #1987
ralfgarnett
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Re: Recently separated after 17 years of marriage honest advice and views needed

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I still think that your fear of the finality of it if she still refuses to come back is stopping you. You would have done it before now otherwise. its a pretty straight forward thing to do.
No not fear, just a lack of clarity and motivation that's all, I wouldn't have her move back in if she knocked on the door that would be crazy, yes of course I would like her back in my life but not in our home or bed for at least 3-6 months if not more, we would need to re-connect firstly as friends and take it from there, I would be dedicated to reconciliation but wouldn't rush at it.
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