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Old 31st December 2009, 05:04 PM   #63
bokie51
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Re: I don't love my wife and never have...

I can totally understand how you feel. I have been my marriage for 27 years, thinking it would get better, but it has not. You just can not force yourself to love someone that you don't.

I would tell you this, you can stay where you are if you are telling yourself that things will get better if it has not gotten better in 10 years now, your kids would rather be from a broken home then from a home where there is nothing but sadness. I know this firsthand I grew up in a unhappy house. Get divorced and find your true happiness. Life is too short to have wake to a life that is not full of life. I heard an old saying that really makes sense. "It's in your moments of decision the your destiny is shaped". You made the wrong decision forgive yourself and move forward.

These are my opinions, I have lived this and know how painful not having communications, and love is. Find that someone that you can communicate with and love will fallow.

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