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Old 3rd September 2011, 08:13 PM   #68
1aokgal
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Re: Married and lonely

Helen...

As always, your points are well taken. Exactly the impression I got from Sasha's postings were the marriage is locked into dislike, no compromise, no progress and no happiness for either.

She prays for her husband to change. I thought he shows that God answers those prayers in some ways as this husband does try in this marriage. He took his son to church. Sasha writes ..she did not care and it made no difference.

This father then took his family to the theme park. His wife has so much anger she confronted him with an embarrasssing remark to impress the other lady who accompanied them! The husband ignored the comment. He tried to carry through for a civil day. Those actions on his part show his love for his son.

Conclusion....Sasha neither likes nor repects her husband. There is so much animousity she can't control herself in a social situation.
That marriage is over and just needs an end to it. Sasha has his paycheck and he continues to do his duty to maintain the household. It is a lose, lose situation for him. When a marriage descends to this level the emotional detachment means there is no possible resolution.
There is no portion of blame in a marriage as both either contribute, or do not.

Last edited by 1aokgal; 3rd September 2011 at 08:22 PM.
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