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Old 23rd December 2013, 12:29 PM   #17
Raymond
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Re: Hoping to move forward

I know he loves you in his own way Carr but if it is to grow he has to learn to love you in a way that is special to you including the touch. Believe me that was right out of my psyche being brought up as an orphan and not having the normal nurture. It can be learned if he loves you and it can become natural to him. We can rewire our minds and science confirms that in these days.

Real love always wants the best for the other and is willing to learn. It goes beyond feelings when we are learning to start with, but feelings do catch up eventually. It can be work but it is worth it.

I need to have a word with my son about it. Is your husband willing to read the book to learn? That is all part of working on a marriage.
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