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Old 19th April 2013, 03:15 PM   #3
judonski
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Re: When marriage meets physical disability-Urgent Advice please

We are both from Nigeria but live in london.I brought her here 6 years ago when I got a job.We are married and though I am settled here(immigration wise),she is required to stay in this marriage to get her own settlement.
My disability is muscular dystrophy (beckers type) but I am still able to do things.
There is a huge difference in our academic achievements.I am a medical doctor with postgraduate qualifications,she dropped out from uni. due to her fathers limited resources.
She finds it difficult or impossible to say sorry or tender simple apology.
She has always been manipulative but nothing near what is happening right now.
To say she is manipulative and selfish is an understatement. My take had always been who is perfect anyway.
She tells me things too bad to put down here.
I am not depressed or anything but I 'm loosing sleep over it,just staying strong for my kids.
I have sometimes considered going secretly to Dignitas in swithzaland to take my own life-it has been that bad.

Last edited by judonski; 19th April 2013 at 03:23 PM.
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