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Old 28th January 2012, 01:45 PM   #8
Helen_uk
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Re: How do I move on?

Why would her AA mentor tell her to end her marriage ? Is this a man or a woman ?

In general, people don't end marriages for no reason at all, and on here we often see this kind of thing happening when a third person is lurking somewhere in the back ground. If that's the case ( and people often don't find this out straight away ) then it makes any chance of reconciliation much more unlikely.

I'm really sorry you are having to go through this , it's especially hard when you're at a low point anyway.

My advice would be to look after yourself at this point , continue with some good quality counselling, put your efforts into finding work and rebuilding your self esteem .

I would also be wary of maintaining a friendship with your W at this point unless you feel deep down there is a chance of reconciliation and you know for sure there is nobody else involved. It is very much harder to recover from a break up of marriage if you are in constant contact with them.
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