Thread: I need HELP
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Old 30th October 2015, 10:37 AM   #6
Raymond
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Re: I need HELP

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Originally Posted by Ultron View Post
so what can i do raymond!
She wouldnt cook'
isnt interested to cook,
she makes excuses like shes pregnant and cant cook (but when her family was here a few weeks ago she was on her feet for 4hours cooking for them)
We are expecting our first child does that mean our child would face the uncertain future of eating properly home cooked meals?
As you say she can cook if she cooked for her relatives so this would indicate that there is a deep reluctance there to take on this duty permanently. One doesn't know why she has such a deep aversion to cooking when one would assume it would be the natural thing to do for a wife.

I think there may be a bit of control coming from one or both parents as Chosen hints at. Your marriage should be a seperate entity in itself which I think you must realise.

It is very unhealthy to live on fast food and this is something you can gently get across as you have opportunity without forcing it.

May I ask who does the shopping and cleaning in your household?
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