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Old 20th August 2005, 10:29 PM   #3
woodywasp
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Re: advice needed

My Wife has got post natal depression according to the DR and she is on 2 forms of medication becuase of it . She was irritable during the pregnancy but nothing like this.
A few weeks back she disapered i leaving my son with me and did not come home until the early hours I ended up having to call the police as I was worried about her.
Since that time the following weekend when my daughters from my previous marriage came to stay she started an argument I walked away and when I come back she had damaged a load of things in the house and thrown tea at the walls the house was a right mess.

Then earlier today I went to a local supermarket I had just finished shopping when I walked into the path of my wife coming the opposite way. She stormed past me and immediately started to call someone on her phone it was pure coincidence that I happened to be in the supermarket at the same time. we did not speak at all. I left the supermarket and went to a nearby Macdonalds. The next thing I knew she pulled up in her car which is quite distinctive and was been escorted by the Police , I could tell that she must have phoned the Police implying that I was following her but this was not the case it was just coincidence.

When we split 3 Weeks ago today I tried to reason with her and to support her but she was having none of it .she then changed her mobile and refused to let me have contact with my son. She knew this would upset me as I have only just regained contact with my Daughters from my previous marriage after 2 yearsand she knew how much pain I felt not seeing them.
I feel as if she is trying to set me up to get in trouble with the Police . I have not approached her at all but she seems intent on blaming me for everything.

I love my wife so much and feel lost and empty without her . I feel I have tried everything I have backed off and left her alone, and she has changed and has cut me off completely. Unfortunately her mum had a bad experience with her father when she was the same age as my son and has hated men ever since and seems to have been intent on filling my wife's head with poison continually.

I have always tried to do my best and feel I could not do anymore to try and resolve this so where am I going wrong???? I cannot write to her mum as I know she will show her the letter and this will only inflame the situation. My wife seems really angry at me and has implied she will destroy me but why??

Last edited by woodywasp; 20th August 2005 at 11:10 PM.
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