Re: Now what to do?
Hi Bob,
Give your marriage another go...time will tell if that will net anything for both of you. Meanwhile, tell the other lady that this is your intention...to do the honorable thing and try with all your might to keep your vows. This OW should be able to respect and appreciate this (especially if the shoe were on her own foot, so to speak). If she is a decent person, she would want you to give your marriage the benefit of a honorable try seeing that this opportunity to do so presented itself.
You can always contact her if things fall apart at the seams...and if you and your wife do manage to renew the marriage...what have you lost except a "possibility" that could have just as easily turned out as another loss?
It is amazing the timing huh? Just when you thought all was lost I mean.....
Best Wishes!
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