[Raymond]

That's devastating Lindentree to smash all your hope for your marriage in one go. I can never understand that as I see marriage as a commitment for life. Your life was wrapped up in his and now this. We live in black days where this sort of thing is rife. My heart goes out to you in this betrayal of all you gave and worked for.

I have never been through that like others on here but you have to keep hope. There is life after this as bad as it is. You cannot see that now but you will. In a sense it will only be up from here once it has all sunk in.