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Old 27th December 2013, 10:31 AM   #29
chosen
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Re: When is enough really ENOUGH!!!

You are right in that we all need to recognise our own faults and weaknesses, and try and accept that others also have faults and weaknesses. Neither easy but both important.
Its also a good idea to work on yourself with Gods help, as ultimately its only him who can heal us and change us from the inside.

However none of us will ever have it all together, and as we get older, we get more baggage to add to what we already have. When I married my second husband 8 years ago(both in our late 40's) we were both really weighed down by baggage such as past hurts and traumas, past rejections and losses, getting out of balance in certain areas, fears and all sorts. In our case, God did a lot of healing after we met and after we married through each other, so that can happen as well, However the better state emotionally we can be before we meet someone the better.

God will always use bad things that happen to us to bring good, that's one of the things I love about Him.
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