Thanks, 1AOKgal!
I didn't realise there was an alternative method of marrying in a catholic church - the people I asked must have not realised they could do it without his having to be confirmed. That will be quite a relief to the OP, I suspect
Does that mean the bride can't take the sacrament at her wedding, or does she nip up to the altar in a quiet moment?!
(Perhaps they do a de-consecrated doggy bag for the groom
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Good to hear from you, lovely.
AG x