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Old 2nd September 2011, 01:05 PM   #54
Raymond
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Re: Married and lonely

Your friend doesn't know what we know Sasha. There was a similar case on this part of the forum where a christian woman had a husband who persisted with the porn. Eventually she cut loose and started a new life. I'll have to find it to see if she said how she had got on since then.

It is one thing to have a weakness that you are fighting and trying to get the victory over and quite another to persist in it to the detriment of your marriage.

These things are being worked out in our day as it is quite a new problem historically speaking, hence there are not clear paths as to the mode of action to take. With adultery it is obvious but this kind of stuff still hasn't been mapped out. My own view as you know is that it is mental adultery and hence comes under the heading of immorality and therefore can be grounds for divorce in my view, but obviously you have to work these things out for yourself.

You have financial considerations as well as your child to consider but this thing is obviously affecting your marriage deeply. Anyone with a full commitment to their wife would not indulge in this stuff. As a christian you will know what lies behind it and who it is who seeks to steal, kill and destroy so in a sense the problem is spiritual as well.

What do you think God is saying to you just now?
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