Re: Husband doesn't want sex
yes I agree that intellect and intelligence are very different. MY daughters boyfriend(age 26) is the most intelligent person I have ever met. He must have an incredibly high IQ. He knows anything about anything, and I know that if he has been encouraged more and been guided differently he could have easily got a phd and more. He has got a degree in music production and is in full time work, but I sometimes feel that his great intelligence is so wasted.
My son and younger daughter choose not to apply for uni, but are doing really well in their jobs. One is a senior librarian(and loves it) and one is in IT for a Christian charity and has learnt all that he knows on the job. He may well end up as a minister or full time church/youth worker though.
I dont think that uni would have made any difference to them as neither knew what they wanted to do at that time, and also I was not in a position to support them financially either.
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