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Raymond · 8th January 2013, 01:18 PM

I can understand her disgust Mike if you are putting recording devices in her bedroom. The affair was very wrong and setting up a recording in the car revealed the affair. To carry on in this vein however can be spying and I am not convinced it is the correct thing to do. I would apologise for it. Yes she has done a lot of harm but you still need to apologise when you get it wrong.

What she could do is make herself acountable for her movements to you but you need permission for that. That's if she wanted to rebuild the lost trust. I cannot see her wanting to do that just yet though.

8th January 2013, 01:18 PM	#13
Raymond Moderator Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 6,409	Re: My wife had an 18 month affair I can understand her disgust Mike if you are putting recording devices in her bedroom. The affair was very wrong and setting up a recording in the car revealed the affair. To carry on in this vein however can be spying and I am not convinced it is the correct thing to do. I would apologise for it. Yes she has done a lot of harm but you still need to apologise when you get it wrong. What she could do is make herself acountable for her movements to you but you need permission for that. That's if she wanted to rebuild the lost trust. I cannot see her wanting to do that just yet though.